I am in love with my best friend ,and 2 days ago i Told him I like him he said nothing an i text him to say it was ok it was probably just a phase i was going through an not to pay any heed to me he should know by now i chnage my mind every 2 seconds.he repied sayin he always knew i was looney.Problem is it does matter to me but what can i do now ...........any advice
2006-06-30 02:41:33 · 17 answers · asked by bermur 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am 35 he is 34 both single
2006-06-30 02:42:08 · update #1
how cute
2006-06-30 02:45:02 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥♣BABY GIRL♥♥♣ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you made a mistake by recanting your disclosure. If he does feel for you (and he might, even though he didn't say anything right away) I think you should have a conversation about it. Perhaps he doesn't want to go there because he's afraid of ruining the relationship. But if it still matters to you, you should be honest with him. You never know, sometimes being friends first can be the start of a wonderful relationship.
2006-06-30 02:48:57 · answer #2 · answered by kalischild57 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon, sit him down and tell him the truth. Tell him that you are being serious about this and that the feelings you have for him are real and that they are not going to go away. Men would rather you be honest with them instead of keeping something this important from them. You'll end up making yourself sick if you don't. If he doesn't have the same feelings for you, then hold your head high for taking a chance and talk to one of your other friends for consoling. good luck in life.
2006-06-30 02:53:20 · answer #3 · answered by hooeypoohey1957 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've probably just thrown him abit, give him a day or two to get used to the idea then explain that you do like him but the most important thing to you is your friendship and you dont want there to be a weird atmosphere. if something happens fantastic if not at least you still have your best friend. i know these situations get difficult but just have faith i'm sure it will all work out ok.
2006-06-30 02:47:43 · answer #4 · answered by kookydoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shame, that is not the best situation to be in!! well the best advice a can give you is, just give it time.. like it sounded to me he did not confess by saying that he DIDN'T like you in that way??!! maybe he feels the same way.. and now that it is in the open he is scared.otherwise just enjoy being young-and there is allot of fish in the see. you know maybe it will feel a bit different ad first but if he really do care for you as a friend, and you really care for him. you will beable to solve this and still remain friends or even more..who knows??? GIVE IT TIME
2006-06-30 02:51:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think what you should do is to sit him down and tell him that you do really like him, but first find out what you really want cuz changing your mind every time will and can complicate things. i went through the same as yourself and i sat down and thought long and hard and finally i relized that i did not want to be with the person i thought i loved cuz it was maybe obbsession, not saying that you are in the same boat. but think it over. good luck.
bigali7862002
2006-07-01 08:06:23 · answer #6 · answered by bigali7862002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So am i... i am also with her.... :) It worked out for me, but thats not to say it's the right thing to do. I think you need to let your best friend know that you are serious and leave it at that. You can't expect a positive reaction, even tho it would be nice. Try to sort your head out yourself and talk to others about it.
good luck
2006-06-30 02:48:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO
think u will need 2 look 4 new best friend
2006-06-30 02:45:17 · answer #8 · answered by **ZARA** 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what its like, i'm in love with a woman who i one stage i almost had a chance with but now i don't cos i'm already in a relationship. just be glad u have his friendship, don't jeopardise it. at the end of the day, if it's meant to be it'l be. just be glad u have him in ur life. it'l still hurt, i break my heart sometimes that i can't have the girl of my dreams but she's still my friend. good luck with that.
2006-06-30 02:45:57 · answer #9 · answered by linz_the_freak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it well alone angel, he knows you meant it, he's not stupid.
Just give it time, and if he feels the same way, he will come to you, if not, then you still have a friend.
xx
2006-06-30 02:47:25 · answer #10 · answered by sukimitchell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can ask him how he feels about you, no strings attached. If he says he's just your friend then just be friends. This is corny but, if it's meant to be it will happen.
2006-06-30 02:45:13 · answer #11 · answered by on my way 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋