Ok why do "some" girls complain about all the guys using them or cheatin on them or somethin. and they say they want a guy who treats them nice and sweet and Loves them for them. then you have some guys who come along no their no so hott lookin but persontly wise their everything she ever wanted. and the girl rejects them to me thats stupid. In reality if you truly want a guy to treat you right and all that your gonna have t be willing to not base it off his entire appearnce because you never know their is always sumthin extremly sexy about every guy. like a nerd he might learn about sex so much and learn **** basicly no guy knows n he could be the best **** a girl has ever had. in my oppion a girl doesnt give a *** bout all tht caring and luvy duvy shittill she gets about 26 and up. but sum girls stay the same n sum girls r more mature. but why are sum girls like that? I mean i know sum guys tht get rejected n i simply do not understand it. because of wht i know of tht guy.
2006-06-30 02:38:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Alike one guy I know he said to me every girl deserves to be happy. and if that girl i like doesntthink she'll be happy with me. then fine I hope she finds someone that she is happy with even if its not me. she wanted to be with her ex that she dumped 4 times but if that makes her happy i gotta put my feelins aside for hers. when he said that to me I was shocked. hes the nicest guy n wht alot girls wish for in a guy
2006-06-30 02:41:53 · update #1
ok..............no comment.......thanks 4 the 2pts anywayz........hahahahahaha!!!!!!
2006-06-30 02:45:52 · answer #1 · answered by Patty's Tat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read the book Swept Away.
It is written by a woman.
It will tell you everything about this behavior.
Basically women prefer good mates for their unborn children. They are designed and raised to find (and insert) the best DNA possible......as many times as necessary.....
..and women want a "White Knight in shining armor".....to sweep them off their feet.
They know that these "best" mates are subject to flaws that are unacceptable.
They believe that since they are "nice girls" and "worthy girls" they can only date "nice guys".......
......so they become delusional and REALLY begin believing that these alpha-males are good, trustworthy, kind, sincere, etc...NOT from actual experience but out of some sort of encoded psycho-vanity self- brain- washing......
....that they ultimately regret.... so they have "uglier" best-friend male-friends to complain about how life is sooooo hard.....
...and they feel better, safer and ultimately cared-for. The "uglier" guys get nothing. They are simply emotional tampons.
Women aren't bad......they just have bad upbringing and bad habits.
Most guys don't understand and get bitter....thus making it even MORE difficult for them to be happy. The girls can't help it. The guys need to be smarter.
2006-06-30 03:17:11 · answer #2 · answered by TeaSwami 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No answers man.
Men have been asking the question: "why are women crazy?" for centuries. You're no different.
Will say this though. Your observations are pretty accurate. The problem is this:
Young women are so concerned about image, that it overrides their true desires.
It's kinda like guys and fat chicks. We call this one the "Moped Theory". Goes like this: Fat girls are like Mopeds, they are fun as hell to ride, but you don't want your friends to see you on one.
I'm not sure what the Female equivelent to that metaphor might be, but I'm sure they have one.
I can't tell you the amount of times at bars, I've heard something like this, "yeah, she's big, but the fat ones try harder". Funny part is, it's true to some degree.
Same is true my friend, for guys like you. You make up for lack of experience, in research and knowledge. Not a bad game plan.
So, not sure what you want out of this. Advice on how to land more tail or advice on how to get a girlfriend with potential for LTR.
Either way, MAKE FRIENDS. Get acquainted with Female friends. Girls at work or school. Girls at the Tennis club or wherever! Your not trying to score though, you're trying to GATHER DATA!!! Think of it as recon!
I have never tried to get into girls pants. Women always took theirs off and tried to get into mine. HOW?
Language, actions etc....
Learn how to talk to women. Poetry, complements, LISTEN.
Do things for them, little things. Doors, napkins, chairs... I prefer the old school.
For your needs in the mean time.... try not to look at pornography. It will only distort your mind and make your sexual appetite insatiable. You'll have unrealistic desires and expectations. Use your mind, fantasize, etc....
Cheers and good luck to you.
2006-06-30 02:53:20 · answer #3 · answered by Cherry Stems 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea there are some grls like that but they reject them beause someone in this world has the good looks and the good personality that they were looking for. but you u can have a realtionship based on a cute face and a somewhat good personality but not a ugly face and a good personality you have to be attracted to the person emotionally and physically or it juss wont work.. but not a real real good looking person cause then the other grls gon be all on his dick tryna still him!
2006-06-30 02:46:58 · answer #4 · answered by mztraye 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a theory about that to some women men are an accessory they have to look good. What would their friends think if they went out with a man that wasn't the fashion.
2006-06-30 02:46:32 · answer #5 · answered by Jim C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most of society are extremely shallow. Its a shame that its that way sometimes...But its no different for guys, they do this too.
In the past I've been guilty of this myself...hopefully I'm succeeding, at least a little, in my desire to learn to get past this behavior.
2006-06-30 02:48:14 · answer #6 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girls == Psycho
2006-06-30 02:41:59 · answer #7 · answered by Caus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry id like 2 answer u but this Q is way 2 long 2 keep track of..
2006-06-30 02:50:06 · answer #8 · answered by jd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thtas a girl for you. Its simple they want a good lookin guy who treats them well. Dude like live it.
And if GF says any of that crap...........dump the whore.
2006-06-30 02:44:50 · answer #9 · answered by Barca rules. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
immature like one girl told me he is to hot thats the ones that cheat
2006-06-30 02:43:51 · answer #10 · answered by Rox 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because those girls are the sl*ts... I'm not like that.
2006-06-30 02:44:12 · answer #11 · answered by roxy81492 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋