He still texts me just under a year later. He wasnt ready for committment at the time. In one of his texts the other night he asked me was I at a certain game, "probably with my girlfriends or maybe with your fellow", what does this mean, is he fishing to see if Ive a new man or does he really care? Why is he still in touch every week or forthnight, its not as if hes after sex as we hadnt got to that stage ....
2006-06-30 02:33:12 · 6 answers · asked by sunny01 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't respond to him,
Guys like that are major "players" just stay away from him.
I am sure you are a good person and your ex does not deserve you!
2006-06-30 02:38:36 · answer #1 · answered by ambidextrous25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From your statement, its not indicated why you parted.This could somehow have provided some clues. All the same, when someone is "double-dealing" [i.e. where one is having two ladies or more and keep switching between them],there are chances of such things to result. When according to him one seem to have more "points",the said man will put more of his weight on her. As such the others will receive less of him. If by some chance he happens to have mis-calculated his moves and the move back-fires, there is a tendency of trying to go back to the one(s) he left.
In this case, I've a feeling something like what I've mentioned above is happening. There is hardly any way of telling where he has been for all that while and with whom he has been with!!
Love relationship is something that need to be appraoched with great care!! Before engaging yourself the issue of, among others, TRUST,COMMITMENT and GOAL(aim or purpose of the relationship) must be considered fully. Failure to do so will result to hurts,pains and scars that will be very hard to heal leave alone forget!!Be focused therefore and let nothing influence your decision; you have one life to live TREASURE IT!!
2006-06-30 10:22:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he sees something in you now that he didn't see then and feels as if he still has a chance if you haven't found a new male friend yet.
2006-06-30 09:39:01 · answer #3 · answered by K J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just becareful and dont let him hurt you he is just checking up on you and yes he cares about you and if you have feelings for him just take things slowly and dont get to rapped up in him because he could do it again and again if you know what i mean good luck
2006-06-30 09:45:36 · answer #4 · answered by readyhead42@yahoo.com 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is prying for information ... Just be friends with him and things might work out ...
2006-06-30 09:36:19 · answer #5 · answered by stessie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you even have to ask, then the answer is yes!!!!
2006-06-30 09:53:13 · answer #6 · answered by Pam S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋