He picked where we were meeting. We met up at a bar/lounge on such a rainy day. My hair was ruined but he said it was fine. We talked for hours and seemed to have a great conversation. We left the bar to have dinner. It still seemed fine. After we went to a park and talked more. I was getting tired and he asked if we should call it a night. Mind you the whole time, we were talking and he was flirting. It sounds silly but I was intimidated, and I never am. He was really attractive, articulate, and awsome, not what I have been dating lately. I didn't respond to some of his gestures because for once I was actually shy. We left the park to get cabs home. We kept walking and talking, to be honest, I didn't want tp go but I had to be at work in the morning. We must have passed like a hundred cabs until we hit the furthest avenue(this is NY). He kissed me on the cheek and gave me an awkward hug goodnight. What should I have done? Should I call him or wait for him to call me?
2006-06-30 02:23:11 · 15 answers · asked by Yisrael Chai 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
take some initiative and call him,let him know you had a fun night and you enjoyed the conversation and all that. He probably didn't know what do to either and didn't want to be too forward or overstep any boundaries.So if you call him I think that would make him more comfortable and it would be easier for him to "make a move" the next time you go out.(hopefully there's a next time) Good Luck!!
2006-06-30 02:30:14 · answer #1 · answered by SarcasticAnomaly 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i would let him call you unless you really really feel like you gave him the wrong message. But it sounds like a pretty awsome date to me, maybe he never kisses on the first date and it seems like its working well for him becuase it left you wanting more.
2006-06-30 02:28:33 · answer #2 · answered by jeepgirl007mm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awwww how sweet!! Maybe he didn't know if u kissed on the 1st date, or maybe he doesn't who knows...but it seems u have nothing to worry about because ur night sounded awesome...=) It really doesn't matter who calls I think, if you really wanna call him, y not..have no regrets in life....good luck hun..=)
2006-06-30 02:35:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres nothing wrong to call him, but if he isnt reachable or doesnt sound very excited to hear from you....forget it mate! he doesnt want you. These days alot of guys dont wanna kiss on the first date, coz they dont want the girl to think they're after one thing, so dont look too much into it!
2006-06-30 02:28:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
scared, nervous, showing u respect, doesn't want u 2 think he
s only out 4 1 thing. call him
2006-06-30 02:32:58 · answer #5 · answered by D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, maybe he likes you but is to shy to show it, and maybe he has to much respect for you. Not all guys are gerks that takes you out just for a chat because he's bourd....
2006-06-30 02:32:57 · answer #6 · answered by Lizzy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it sounds unusual but some people actually do have manors....LOL
Wait on him to call you, he sounds like he may have a little old fashion raising in him.
Good luck :-)
2006-06-30 02:37:01 · answer #7 · answered by Karen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he ought to have never kissed a woman till now....or could have in basic terms completed it some circumstances...you pick for it then he will understand you desire him to kiss you, and then he will choose for the kiss from then on..
2016-10-31 23:38:46 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mayb u guys r still on a fresh relationship rite?otherwise is he still not yet really into you yet....normally guys dun make the 1st daring move on the 1st date....other than that is he jus respect u.
2006-06-30 02:35:13 · answer #9 · answered by j@NicE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he might have been a gentleman. Hopefully he will call you.
2006-06-30 02:26:30 · answer #10 · answered by Cindy A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋