2006-06-30 02:08:04 · 17 answers · asked by R. K 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
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2006-06-30 02:15:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somehow, find it within yourself to forgive her. You can replace friends, but you can never replace your Mother. No matter what the situation has been or how bad things are, you have to find a way to forgive her.Things may be better after that or they may not change as far as your relationship with your Mom, but at least you will know in your heart that you have forgiven her and that will take a big load off your shoulders and your heart. I hope things work out for you both. Life is too short.
2006-06-30 09:15:16 · answer #2 · answered by Cindy A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, let me tell you a bit of my story. I was raised in a family of 12, I'm the youngest one. My mom abandon us when I was only 3 month old. Alone with dad. I hated her at first, but knowing that the word of God says, not to hate but to love, I learn to forgive my mom. I love her and respect her and carry no remorse against her. It's the way I was raised not to hate. Forgive your mom no matter how wrong she is, she is the only person that really cares for you. She might fight with you and get angry at you, but deep down in her heart she loves you. That cannot be taken away from no one.
2006-06-30 09:15:45 · answer #3 · answered by Evy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way i know of is with a conversation and courage ..Talk about what it is you need to forgive her for and really forgive and forget it . Show love and understanding
2006-06-30 09:13:14 · answer #4 · answered by Linda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to actually forgive her. Sit down and have a talk with her about whatever you are forgiving her for and then let all hard feelings go.
2006-06-30 09:13:56 · answer #5 · answered by ericalsmith2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whew... that one is hard.
on one hand she is just a person like everyone else deserving of her perspective, her experiences.
on another, she is a mom, and we expect for her to give unselfishly of herself to her children. To always do what is right by the child, to intuitively know what is right and what might be hurtful, to apologize and humbly serve those to whom call her mom.
With that said: I still can't forgive my mom. Good luck to you. Sometimes these situations just make for good stories with others. The only good advice I can offer in a troubled relationship with a mother is to have no expectations.
2006-06-30 09:21:22 · answer #6 · answered by artful dodger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was once told by a very wise person that forgiveness starts with learning how to forgive oneself, first. Then comes empathy...followed by walking the talk...then have the heart-to-heart talk with her.
good luck
2006-07-07 06:24:31 · answer #7 · answered by Aldebaran 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think about what she did that should make you forgive her. She's your mother, and everyone makes mastakes, even ur parents. She loves you and if you love her that much, you can forgive her for anything. Just remember that one day you can olso make a mastake, and you would want her to forgive you aswell. Forgive her through you loving her. Think it through....
2006-06-30 09:25:04 · answer #8 · answered by Lizzy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just come out & say it. dont not talk to her for the rest of your life & she dies in tears because you never talked to her like in the movies. i think you should just tell her. God says that you should forgive people 70x7 times. (As an example)
2006-06-30 09:17:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you're sorry.
Tell her you love her.Make sure she always knows that.
Tell her you'll try to be mature about (situation) next time.
You guys should probalby talk more.Talking helps in every way physically,emotionally,verbally.
Juss talk.
2006-06-30 09:12:08 · answer #10 · answered by inurface012391 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realize that she is human just like you and was doing the best she could with what she had.
2006-06-30 09:11:32 · answer #11 · answered by AlphaFemale 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋