I have been with my bf for 13 months. I love him. He says he loves me. I feel that the relationship is falling apart though. We're not as close as we use to be. He feels like he's holding me back from life and I feel like I'm holding him back. Our lives are heading in different directions. I actually want to so something with my life, he has no clue that life is passing him by. I really don't want to loose him, but if it's the only way the save a friendship then I would try. I can't really talk to him about it, everytime we try to talk, he says that he has to grow up and then he can see were life is taking him.
Please help me.
2006-06-30 01:03:33 · 4 answers · asked by angel2005_2001 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hun if u think ur lives r headed in opposite directions then theres ur answer right there...is hard to know what will happen in the future...if we knew all the answers wed be laughing...but its never easy and its never the way we all hope....if u truly love eachother then u will still have that love in 3, 6, 9, 12months time...and no matter where or when u go u will be in eachothers hearts and thoughts...my wise mum god rest her soul always said to me, absence makes the heart grow fonder...so try it hun...if ur meant to be together then u will get back together but as for now try a trial seperation...time out...maybe u both will realise how it really is when ur not under eachothers feet.... love is a strong bond....and dosent crumble under seperation if its meant to be...tc hun... : )
2006-06-30 01:13:24 · answer #1 · answered by angel_of_ur_heart35 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, Sometimes it does take men a little while longer to find out what they want in life but don't let NOBOBY stop you from living your life. Life is to short to wait for someone that is not on the same page yet. Do your thing and if that is a true friend he will always be there no matter what.
2006-06-30 08:18:40 · answer #2 · answered by sister 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you truely love someone you can make it work, maybe you guys should go on a date like dinner and a movie or if you guys are into it go to a club together to spice things up. if he knows that he has to grow up then try and help him or just try and live on with you life and do what you have to do with him by or side. but if you guys both agree that you two are holding eachother back then maybe it isnt ment to be
2006-06-30 08:47:06 · answer #3 · answered by Andi_253 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like its time to call it good...... If you both realize that youre repsectively holding each other back, should make the break that much easier. Time to move on, kiddo
Good luck
2006-06-30 08:08:18 · answer #4 · answered by zoinks22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋