i love my man but his kids annoy me what do i do?
2006-06-29 22:39:08 · 13 answers · asked by loveableladee1 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
That's tough.
You better tell your man how you feel. Don't worry about offending him. You feel the way you feel and that's not going to change whether he knows it or not. He's better off knowing about it.
2006-06-29 22:44:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
are they annoying or an inconvienence ?
more than likely they are just looking for attention from you . take some time to get to know them a bit . if you guys have possible future plans to be together for a long time and get married they will become a part of your life too.
kids are annoying , they have tons of questions, make funny noises that can be a pain to hear for the hundredth time , seem overly concerned with what you are doing or what you keep in your purse , and they whine , but they are just kids they are curious and like to test their world around them .
for someone who doesnt have kids or who wasnt there from the start to help mold them as they grew it can be frustrating . try to find ways to get to know them and bond with them . give them respect and understanding . talk to them . and talk to him about things . keep the lines of communication open .
hope this helps some
2006-06-30 01:38:58 · answer #2 · answered by mick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a way to communicate peacefully with his kids, like when they start to annoy you, sit down and talk with them about their interests or give away your time to play with them games they love, so that makes you closer with them, so then, they won't annoy you much..
But this depends, how old is his children?
2006-06-29 22:45:45 · answer #3 · answered by YA!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him, then you should take the time out to get to know his kids and maybe then they won't annoy you.
2006-06-29 22:44:25 · answer #4 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you first got with your man you must have realized he had kids, so basically you took not just him on but them too. if you love him as much as you say you need to talk to him about the kids. you must also realize this must be difficult for them. they will play up to see how you react. if you let them know it annoys you they will do it even more.it is not there fault, they just have to come to terms that daddy is happy whilst thinking mum is alone. reassure them and dint bad mouth there mother. one thing for sure you decided to stay with your man he comes as a package.that's all there is to it.
2006-06-29 23:11:50 · answer #5 · answered by LUCY T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love ur man, u should love all he is
soon, if ur married with kids, u'll learn to love them,
think of this as a chance of practicing and annoying kids make them kids
just like when we were young we were annoying taht's a part of gowing up
2006-06-29 22:44:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down with him and you both discuss it before confronting the kids. Make rules ahead of time to be discussed with the kids and punishment if they do not listen.
2006-06-29 22:44:26 · answer #7 · answered by Lore 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly loved him the kids would not be a problem. So leave
2006-06-30 01:13:47 · answer #8 · answered by CYNDIITA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you will have to get use to his kids if you want to be with him. It may be annoying right now but get use to them, do things with them and maybe they will stop acting that way.
Good luck
2006-06-29 23:35:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either learn to like his kids or move on
2006-06-29 23:21:32 · answer #10 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋