I am so scared to talk to boys!!! I love this boy that lives down the street from me because he is so hott!!! I can not get over him!!! I cant stop thinking about him!!!! So what so i do????????
2006-06-29 22:30:54 · 20 answers · asked by bestfriend200316 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
honey it is lust, and it will leave after time, but in the meantime when you see him out just say hi for starters
2006-06-29 22:33:36 · answer #1 · answered by peakcox 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try and start a small conversation at first and if the conversation ends just say "thanks for the talk see you later" and just walk away if he doesnt absolutely hate you he wont take his mind of that moment and will be eager to talk to you again
to start a conversation
ask him things like
whats your
favorite band,
movie,
song,
etc.
if he asks why tell him your just curious
boys respect girls who are nervous when they talk even though they built up the courage to talk to them
if you can get sucked into a long conversation that is forcefully ended by friends or parents on a weekend
2006-06-30 05:37:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go down the street and bump into him, strike a conversation and tell him you wanna be friend with him. Get him to help you fix your toilet or basin then friendship can blossom from there.
2006-06-30 05:40:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well something you should ask yourself is that, is it lust, or love. If you're just after him for just something to do, then I personally believe don't waste your time. But if you are really wishing to know this guy, just go up to his house, be honest and everything, introduce yourself, get to know him, and see if he truly is someone that you want. It always helps to just talk to those that you think that you can't. Just go with it, and see where it takes you.
2006-06-30 05:34:20 · answer #4 · answered by Gabe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what r u? 12,13. Every young person has trouble talking to the opposite sex, fear of rejection is a killer.. Do not push it. if you hang in the same neighborhood, just practice at "Hi,-----" every time you see him. address him by his name. He will soon be remembering your name and using it, do not hury, be coy. guys like that. make eye contact when you say hi. pretty soon he will be having dreams about your eyes,your words, and that is when he will seek you out.. Girls that are worth it dont chase guys..
2006-06-30 05:53:21 · answer #5 · answered by mr.phattphatt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well have you talked to him before? If you have ask him if he wants to hang out sometime and see what goes from there. Don't be shy. If you have never talked to him try to get to know him. Go to his door and tell him he looked cute so you'd like to get to know him! Hope I helped! Good luck!
2006-06-30 05:33:21 · answer #6 · answered by ashlynn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well as you have seen him around before you hopefully have noticed something that he is interested in. For example if you have seen him play football then talk to him about football or if you have seen him walk his dog, if he has one, go and stroke the dog then talk to the guy...then maybe you could offer to walk it with him :-P
2006-06-30 05:46:15 · answer #7 · answered by x1sweety1x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rule number ONE, under NO circumstances allow him to even THINK or feel even for a SECOND, that you think he's...cool or hot for that matter.
you sound like someone in her late teens, so i'm guessing this guy is somewhere b/w 16-22. guys this age instinctly go after what they think they can't have. something that's "out of their league".
it's human nature, that you don't want what you can have. you'd kill to be king, but when you're king, you don't wanna be king anymore. so believe it or not, going up to the guy and breaking the ice isn't really a very good idea.
immulate or atleast "act" like you're out of his league (this DOES NOT mean that you be RUDE to him, not by far.), just be the girl who doesn't even know that this guy exists. and even though i know you might not agree with me on this, but...a composed girl who 'knows who she is', WITHOUT being aggressive and "isn't" always around is really someone to kill for. rember you're at ease with yourself, you chat very comfortablly with people 'around' (even just talking to someone in his sight works) this guy but NOT to him.
he'd want to talk to you. trust me.
and then "very silently" obersve him, he'll show signs of wanting to talk to you. like look your way, but mostly, it'll be the expression on his face. you'll know when you see it.
then...
when HE wants to talk and you SEEMINGLY don't,
create a siutaion where you guys bump into each other, or come face-to-face for that matter, and say hello.
but DO NOT, invite or push ANYTHING on him. just a hello, and a what's up or whatever. when you sound like that, he'd want more. make him come for more. he'll fall in love with you. he'll become obessed with you. and there's nothing like being wooed by someone so blatantly, so openly, so desireously.
and when you guys start having actual conversations. follow this pattern, in between lines, verbally pull him close, then push him away (verbally, only).
if he doesn't fall in love with you after this....he's a complete dimwit. doesn't have the brains to deserve you or respect you later on.
2006-06-30 05:54:00 · answer #8 · answered by magnus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write on a piece of paper "hay dumb a ss talk to me" and tie it to a rock and throw it in his front window of his house. Or write a fake note and address it to a friend and in it write about this guy you like and how you would love to talk to him but he wouldn't talk to me. and then fold it up and place it somewhere he would see it like on his bike or car.
2006-06-30 05:35:46 · answer #9 · answered by houtexknights330 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm..he lives so close you have many options...maybe gather a bunch of friends and grab a bucket and water and saop have yourself a carwash,have someone invite him to help you guys out..he gets to see cute gurls get soapy ;) plus he could make some money..if he objects..dont pursue anylonger..he might be gay..I REPEAT HE COULD HAVE A BROKEN WRIST!
2006-06-30 05:34:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋