theres this guy that i am crazy about, and we spend hours on the phone each night and see eachother all the time, but he hasnt asked me out yet (and no hes not too shy) and so im wondering if hes just using me for the physical stuff.
2006-06-29 22:01:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
to be honest..my first thought was maybe hes not feelings you like you're feeling him thats why he hasnt asked you out..just because you spend hours on the phone with him and you hange out all the time doenst mean a thing..with a female..what u see is what you get..what we tell u is what we tell you..with a guy..what he tells you ..he means the opposite..guys are confusing..so dont get all excited and get too emotionally attacthed..he could see you as a friend and just like hanging out with you..denst mean hes neccissarly using u..maybe he just likes your company and just see you as friends...maybe you should ask him ne day..what he thinks of you..but u dont want to scare him off or comeon t strng..and if you think hes nt too shy to ask you out ..then maybe you're right..he's not shy ..so maybe he doesnt plan on doing it..i dnt want to say these things to hurt your feelings but its best to lok at reality now and see the big picture before it gets further..dont tell him how u fell..just bring it up int he conversation..like hey waht do you think of me..im just curious..do you see me as a friend or in the future do you think we could be something more..it dpeends on what you can halde..could u handle getting ur heart broken and him sayng what you dont want to hear? maybe thats better to know now then hurting yourself in the long run..maybe u could just wait it out a little longer..maybe right now hes just taking this time to be your friend and get to know you..take things slw..you dont want to rush into anything..trust me..i wish i had somene to tell me tkae things slow..maybe my last ex would have lasted longer..anyways..god luck! hope i helped!
2006-06-29 22:15:53 · answer #1 · answered by Calendar_Model 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
of course he is using u,,,,i m sorry to say but u American girls are the most pathetic things on earth, you never think that u will get old and that u need to study and be a good woman respectable with dignity, get married and have children, all ur life is based in flirting and dating any guys all the time? for God sake u better focus on studying and doing something useful and as soon as ur parents allow u get married with a good respectable guy, worker and clean mind and forget about all that pathetic stuff of yours, if not u will end ur life alone, fat and with AIDS disease or with a baby and working as servant maid for some coins, maybe u will end in suicide or sleeping in a dirty street,You people don't know any morals or respect for yourselves even
2006-06-30 05:05:33 · answer #2 · answered by rivers_of_life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's too shy. I'm 100% sure he's too shy. Tell him to get a backbone and ask you out or stop leading you on.
2006-06-30 05:03:16 · answer #3 · answered by Yu_pimp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ask him if he is using you. i been in this kind of situation before. but if this guy is using you then if i were you i would move on and try to find the right and decent guy for you.
2006-06-30 05:16:55 · answer #4 · answered by mamas_grandmasboy06 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahah 'rivers_of_life' told me the exact same thing. he is pasting that stupid note on every question he perceives is from an american woman. i'm not even american. hhmm, why are these men so obsessed with how north american women run their lives? it's crazy!
2006-06-30 05:08:57 · answer #5 · answered by carlaerickson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?
2006-06-30 05:04:37 · answer #6 · answered by crazynays 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea id say he is shy but telling you he is not he prob is woundering when you are going to ask him out!
2006-06-30 05:04:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hw cld he be USING u !!!
in what manner and what purpose ! ?
2006-06-30 05:13:05 · answer #8 · answered by blessed_one_male 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be . But please don't give him what he wants unless hes trustworthy . be careful
2006-06-30 05:04:40 · answer #9 · answered by idea15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he'll come @ to it
2006-06-30 05:05:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋