i love my ex but i love my new bloke too. their so different i just dont no what to do?
i really love my relationship but part of me think what if ???
i dont wanna regret not giving me and my ex a chance but at the same time i dont wanna to lose what i have with boyfriend, what shall i do???
2006-06-29 21:24:23 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You will always have a doubt which ever one you choose! Thats life.
2006-06-29 21:26:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, first of all, all you can receive is advice. You have to make the decision for yourself. Here's what I do: write down each bloke's name at the top of a piece of paper. On one side of the paper, write what you love about the guy. On the other side, write what you just HATE. That can put in perspective how you really feel. Okay, here's the sad news. Which ever bloke you choose, you will always wonder, "Did I pick the right guy?" You cannot go through life like that. Which ever guy you choose, do so because you love them and love how you feel around them. When those little shoulda coulda woulda's start attacking, remind yourself that your choice has been made. There is no point living in the past. Just accept whatever you decide and move on, or you may ruin a relationship with your lusting over a lover lost. I hope this helped!
2006-06-29 21:31:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex is an ex for a reason , remember why and do you want a rerun ? Second you care about one or both but love is so strong only one companion could be the one . Third you may love the memories of the ex not him , Fourth the new guy may be lust or just exciting to you .So , you might to love either but enjoying you have a choice ?
2006-06-29 21:30:49 · answer #3 · answered by Fairy Tale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gal u cheating on both the guys
make up ur mind quick coz if any of the two got to no abt ur feelings for the other u in big trouble.
and coz u say that u love both the guys ant possible its just u like um both and got confused.
i think u should go with the new guy coz ur ex bf became ur ex for some reason ok.
2006-06-29 21:28:19 · answer #4 · answered by ghost13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i m sorry to say but u American girls are the most pathetic things on earth, you never think that u will get old and that u need to study and be a good woman respectable with dignity, get married and have children, all ur life is based in flirting and dating any guys all the time? for God sake u better focus on studying and doing something useful and as soon as ur parents allow u get married with a good respectable guy, worker and clean mind and forget about all that pathetic stuff of yours, if not u will end ur life alone, fat and with AIDS disease or with a baby and working as servant maid for some coins, maybe u will end in suicide or sleeping in a dirty street,You people don't know any morals or respect for yourselves even
2006-06-29 21:27:15 · answer #5 · answered by rivers_of_life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop living your life around "what if" get on with life, remember why your ex is an ex and enjoy the relationship you're in now.
2006-06-29 21:28:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write a list of all good and bad things about both of them, the one that comes off better try it, but hey in life you should never go the same place twice!
2006-06-29 21:49:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but you cannot love two people at the same time. Maybe you are just enjoying the attention you are getting from them both.
2006-07-06 08:52:45 · answer #8 · answered by chelsea19622000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Another couple of boyfriends and you could make a living out of them. Go on the game.
2006-06-29 22:03:20 · answer #9 · answered by umboko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you mean, you want to get something without lose anything.But you try well with a positive attitude,then you will reach the goal.
2006-06-29 21:38:54 · answer #10 · answered by Rajkumar B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about why you and your ex split in the first place
2006-07-06 01:01:37 · answer #11 · answered by kass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋