should i marry him?

Question

hey.. my bf asked me to marry him in the middle of Tesco's. should i accept?

Answer 1

deciding to marry someone goes far beyond just being in love with the man.. you should be able to answer the question.. are you ready to compromise your freedom to be with this man you feel you can not live without? if the answer is YES.. then go ahead and marry him.

but then, when you come right down to it, all you have is yourself to make that decision.. so think!

Answer 2

Not the most romantic of proposals! But maybe he just felt like the time was right. You don't seem v sure about it though, if its not feeling right for you, which it can't cos you're asking for advice from people on here, then say to him you need to think about it, or youre very flattered by it but you're not ready for that just yet. You need to think it over and decide whats best for you. Once you say yes its a whirlwind and before you know it you;ll be walking down the aisle. As hard as it maybe right now, you don;t want to be married becuase you didn't wanna hurt him and be in a marriage where your unhappy.

Answer 3

I know Tescos are into everything now but if I was you I would tell him to marry in a church or registary office like everyone else

Answer 4

if you have to ask stranger if you should marry your bf then you probably shouldnt. only say yes if thats what you really want and feel in your heart that this is what will make you happy. whats tescos.

Answer 5

if you love him yes. but you obviously arent sure, otherwise you would have said yes straight away and not be asking us on here! where were you in tesco? if my husband had popped the question beside the pile cream, I would have told him to shove it up his ***, but if it was beside the flowers, or in the coffee shop that may have been different! If you love him go for it and good luck with whatever you decide!

Answer 6

If Tesco is a supermarket.... oh my God! What sorta of boyfriend do you have??? But, as far as for me, it's simple. Do you love him? then, marry him. But if you don't.... then, what's the question about??? Give up!!
But, as often in the books... you have to "follow your heart"

Answer 7

The love of your life just asked you to marry him.. Let me ask you this. What.. are you doing here? Ask yourself that question, girl. Do you love him? Enough to spend the rest of your life with him? Then accept. If not, then.. no.

Just think about it. This is your future we're talking about.

Answer 8

do u love him and wanna spend the rest of ur life with him? its scary proposin to someone. maybe tesco has sometime of significance to him with regards to ur relationship or he loves u so much that he didn't care who saw cos he wants u for the rest of his life and wants the world to know it. not the most romantic place for a proposal but maybe he has his reasons. it worries me about the fact that u have to ask a load of strangers this question. follow ur heart but don't rush into it. theres plenty of time for marriage.

Answer 9

Are you asking if you should marry him because of his proposal method or are you asking because you don't know if you should marry him at all?! Well, if you don't know if you should marry him because you're unsure, then don't. If you're sure that he's the one for you and you love him and want to spend the rest of your life with him and vice versa, then say yes.

Answer 10

if you think he is worth marrying.. then do..=) I have a friend I met in webdate which did not come on his wedding day because he realized that he was not so in love with his gf.. too much humiliation. So before you get married, think about it twice and many times.. before you say yes in the altar.