i have got married recently,both of us r too involved in our jobs.how to spend quality time together.help.?

Answer 1

well, perhaps on the weekends, take on a looong drive out of town and get into a motel, far away from anyone else and be together! So whose stopping ya! Go ahead .... get kinky! ha ha ha

Cheers!

Answer 2

If you have been married for a while, it’s easy to get lost in your busy lifestyles.
Sometimes you just need to stop and smell the roses. Keeping you relationship alive, takes a lot of work, you have to have to be spontaneous and keep things interesting and adventurous.

When you first get married, love in the air, you can’t get enough of each other, but after a few years, things slow down, and sometime even comes to a halt.

Some simple ways to keep your relationship alive, will be taking afternoon walks together and reconnecting with each other, upon wakening-up everyday, say something nice to each other before starting your day, surprised each other with breakfast in bed, a back rub to your spouse after a stress day, complimenting each other every day, and stepping out of your comfort zone and doing things a little different occasionally.

All these ideas will bring back the spar that was once there.

Over the years you might put-on a couple pounds that might not be attractive to your mate. Keeping yourself sexy and fit will definitely make your spouse happy. Exercising at lease three times a week will improve your flexibility and overall endurance.

Taking a vacation together will bring back the love that was once there. Most couples get together because they love each other interest, and others for convenience. If your relationship is based on convenience, love really doesn’t stand a change to make a come back.

When you find that special someone, it’s like finding a million dollars, You want to do all you can for your love, and keeping the relationship alive, after a couple of years past, is very important.

Never give up on love, because there is someone out there for everyone. Lastly, make the time to get your love back into tip-top shape, or it will slip away from you.

Answer 3

Well, if you are in a joint family then its a slight problem coz your in-laws might be kinda omnipresent. Still you can do so many things. To begin with, you can have dinner together (daily), as a rule. Plan lunch together (on weekdays) once a week or fortnight. On weekends, you can go somewhere out and do what you both like, or turn by turn. You guys will also take some time to understand each others choices and preferences. Also make it point to call each other daily, say when one of you reaches and/or leaves, and extend this call for some time so that you know what kinda day your partner had had. One of you can go and pick the other one from work to your way home.
So many things to start with!

Answer 4

And that is your problem, you are not making time for your relationship, consider it the most important job of all, and set a priority for it too. This is drastic but I have known people who because they were so driven marked certain hours every day on their organizer or Palm Pilot/ Cell or Outlook, and no matter what they would not break those appointments, they were set at various hours of the day, when they could get free. or Dinners out after work or a movie or something on the weekend out of town. Going riding, playing a Game of golf or shopping for household things, just so that they were together, and could grab a few minutes of alone time spontaneously.

Answer 5

now that you must be settled in your career or even may not, never mind, first come out of the business atmosphere. definitely you may be getting an hours time atleast in a day. you both sit together, communicate with each other, have an excellent time indulging in the hobbies you both like. go for some nice movies, any good cultural programmes, you have many things, if you have a will to do. be friendly and cultivate a healthy relationship, remove all ego and get go, your life will be fantastic, never run after money but run run run towards peace. good luck.

Answer 6

EVERY MORNING an hour before we get dress for work, I'll make coffee and both of us will drink our coffee and read the paper together at the kitchen table, We'll read and discuss things about the news or what's happening at our job. When the hour is up, we wake up the kids and we all get ready for the day. We have been doing this for 37years and do it more often during the day since the kids are gone and we have retired from our jobs.

Answer 7

With may be setting a side a family day and keep it ! To save money , rent DVDs and relax when both of you can be together. How did you do it before since you just got married , you have talked about wanting to spend your lives together , so make the time before life seems to fly pass .

Answer 8

you have to make time no matter how involved you are in your jobs. Eat together and talk no work related topics. if your both organized people schedule time together. Just a couple off hours on the weekend to stay in tune with each other if you want to make the relationship work you have to work on the relationship.

Answer 9

Set up a date night or if you have the same time for lunch breaks, meet somewhere for lunch.

Answer 10

Reevaluate your priorities in life. Are the jobs more important than your relationship?