I have an email..?

Question

I sent my 3-4 year boyfriend....I dont know waht happened to him...heres the email i sent him..

Thomas, you've changed, i dont know who your changing for....but it's not good.

I do love you, and i know somewhere inside you love me.

cause before, you wanted to marry me, have kids with me, you was romantic, loving, telling me you loves me, you always called me Alaina Marie Walsh and you would cry for our love(good things) and you would cry if he thought hed lose me. Sometimes youdd cry to a point where you wanted to die for me. You made a sn called Il0veamw without me telling you too. You sent me love letters in emails, always telling me you love me. we named our kids, and you loved that. You wanted to settle down with me.

Now, you... tell me you dont love me, and that it wasnt anything, you lied about it? Well Thomas, if you lied, most of the things you did, werent from me telling you, you did them first!! You cried for me<3 I cried for you<3 You told me your problems,

i helped you.

You use to call me beautiful, and all these wonderful names... but now you call me bad names... You wanted to have a house in TExas with me, go to school together, have a house together, and all we needed was eachother.

Now all you say to me no, i dont love you, and i dont want that stuff...

Thomas, I'm saddened by how you changed...you may not see it...but i do...
and the most important thing is, who is doing this to you?

You use to tell me you dont like others and this world cause its sick...well...your listening to this world thomas, Jason/your father, and mansfield has gotten you brain washed...telling you thinsg.

I love you, and im not here to tell you ur faults, but i wanted to tell you what you are...and what you could become...

Me and you could go to a school for baseball, there is plenty of schools with a good baseball team...but Love is what we need. Im here for you, by your side.

And if thats not enough, then ill let you go, but remember, I do Love you, no matter what you say. Im always here for you, and dont forget that!

Where did my Bubby go? My cutiepie? My love of my life? My handsome one?

I love you,
and miss you....

Love always forever,

Alaina Marie (Walsh)

I would love to know what happened to his change? If there is anyone who can figure it out and talk to me, give me your email thanks.
and no he's not gay...he's just changed.....Im a Christian, and he use to be,
but hes sorrounded by people that influence him bad...I dunno, i think hes putting
on a show for people.

Answer 1

I have to tell you, Alaina Marie...your letter is very touching.

Humans are very adaptable beings. When there is a change in our environment, or in our life, we adapt to that change.

When we move to a different location, develope a different social awareness - or different friends - or become involved in different activities...this causes us to adapt differently.

This adaptation
...this change...
is a sense of growth...it's maturation.

When we love someone and we grow together...life is grand.
It's a definite bond that can't be taken away...
unless one of us moves away and developes a new life.

Now, Thomas seems to have changed.
And, ...I sense the only way he can make it clear to you that it's over...is by telling you the he never loved you.

This is painful and very sad...and it's time for you to move on Alaina Marie. It's time to put Thomas away...time to heal, grow and change...and then it will be time to find someone who will love you.

Answer 2

Sad when long relationships take a surprise
turn for the worse : (

Sorry to say, but I think your b/f either lost
interest in you, or more likely found another
gal to be with ....... and even tho the e-mail
you sent him just reminded him how much
you cared for each other, he probably thinks
you figured out he has a different g/f now.

Never easy to have your heart broken,
but you seem like very nice girl so I'm
sure you will find true love before too long.

Best of Luck to you : )

Answer 3

The email was a part of you telling him what you probably said to him The change might be his new friends or no belonging to the church or just after 3 -4 years he just wants to be single . Your complaining in the email , or showing your pain .He might reply , but he may just delete it and say I'm just not the same sorry .Your going to have to deal in your own way yes, it has been years and be happy it happened before you made a cheating husband , and a divorce to deal with .You can't put guilt to keep him there.

Answer 4

Well I tell you one thing you went a little over board with the love and your feelings. Men do not like to hear all that for one and they are not emotional to begin with. You know mean are more the non verbal type so next time chill with the long love poems and try to be more to the point.

Answer 5

I M SORRY BUT WHO MAD READ DIS hahahahahahahahaha

Answer 6

good luck.. im too tired to read it all.. but he was so nice to you.. i wonder what happened

Answer 7

My, but you're weird!

Answer 8

he has gone.
and won't be back for a while.

Answer 9

Sorry..i don't get it

Answer 10

yea...............