how come when ur in a club or at a party,
you try to talk to a girl and they think ur a perv
or hand face you or walk away or whatever, instantly.
people keep saying that u just need confidence to talk to someone
but that still dont make a difference,because i HAVE confidence.
i just dont get a chance to get a conversation started. im not a pervert and im decent looking just wondering how the heck that whole thing is supposed to turn out how you want it
when no one is willing to give you a shot.
2006-06-29 20:10:15 · 6 answers · asked by Ness 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree with fashionista sometimes we just want to have a girls nigth .
2006-06-29 20:24:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If there was a simple answer to that one I think we'd all like to hear it. I've no doubt you will get plenty of advice about chat up lines, being relaxed and staying sober etc but none of them will work unless you've got the confidence to start talking to a girl without getting tongue tied and clubs are not terribly good for practising in because there are too many people able to chat up the birds at the drop of a hat. You could try one or other of the dating agencies where at least you know people are looking for friends. If nothing else it will give you a bit of experience.
2016-03-26 22:43:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes, girls just want to have a fun girls' night out w/o guys asking them out and what not. it really may NOT be u...just the mood that the girls are in. other times, they're actively seeking guys' attention. u just have to try and test ur luck.
i know when i did the club scene, i was always up for a dance, and even if i wasn't "into" the guy per se, i'd still dance w/him because at least he had "balls" to ask me in the first place.
2006-06-29 20:15:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was the same way, (sort of), until I learned to dance!
Talk less and dance more... that's my secret! Girls love a guy that can really dance, and I don't mean anything formal either... just good rhythm... and smile alot, like you're enjoyin' yourself! They'll do the talking, believe me!
2006-06-29 20:17:18 · answer #4 · answered by love_2b_curious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sadly the gals you have talked to so far are very protective and conservative in my opinion..... Bad luck i suppose....
2006-06-29 20:14:43 · answer #5 · answered by candle1404 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe its because you didnt zip up your pants and your penis is hanging out?
2006-06-29 20:13:42 · answer #6 · answered by elemen o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋