I was dating my co-worker for the past few weeks and I just cheated on her with another woman. I mean - not even twenty minutes ago. I feel confused. What I'm saying is that we weren't together as a couple the co-worker and I. I consider myself single. So is it cheating? What do you think? What would you do from this point on?
2006-06-29 19:27:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How can you say cheating when you are only dating? Did you have a bond of not seeing any one else? What makes you think she isn't dating others? You should be totally honest with any woman you want in your life. Don't be a sneak and get yourself in a horrible mess. If you made the first one feel as if you were just for her you would have said so and if you do decide to keep one or the other , I hope you are totally honest with yourself and her. Hiding things is a huge red flag in any relationship. Don't set yourself up like that or anyone else.
2006-06-29 19:33:54 · answer #1 · answered by Tainted_Halo 3 · 8⤊ 5⤋
maybe your co-worker does think u both are in a relationship so that would be cheating as far as she can see it, being honest, the most hurtful thing to ever happen to me thus far was being cheated on- its really not nice to play a persons feelings that way-u obviously don't care about the co-worker, the other girl or yourself for u to have done such a thing maybe she really cares about u and could see u two in a committed relationship? its only fair that u tell them both what happened and why u did it please do it for yourself and other females out there who are losing/have lost hope in finding a great, faithful and committed guy to be in a relationship-there are far too many guys out there like u that do this stuff and only stop once it happens to you because only then do u realize how it feels-please figure out who u are and what u want in life-there is far more out there to do then sleep around-you seem unsure of yourself and in the midst of it all u are hurting others-stop now before u do something u might regret-AIDS/STDS ring a bell- in case u didn't know, u can get it too
2006-06-30 03:05:57 · answer #2 · answered by Cleo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you care about this person, let her know . If you both are just having fun, then there is no need to tell her. It is difficult to have a serious relationship with a co-worker.
2006-06-30 02:39:36 · answer #3 · answered by Angie29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had that problem when I cheated on a girl two summers ago. I just came clean and she forgave me.
I guess it depends on your coworker, plus the two of you weren't really dating.... but she might be attracted to you. If so, just apologize - alot. It will do the trick after some crying, whining, etc.
Sorry about the predicament. I know it's hard to stop with one girl.
2006-06-30 02:30:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man u act like ur gonna tell your co-worker or something. If you are not a couple what the hell are you so scared for! I think you're in love
2006-06-30 02:34:19 · answer #5 · answered by pepperspray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well thats not right at all
if you really love the person you wouldn't even though about doing that!!! but what i think you need to do is tell you gf what you did and come up with a good reason why you did it
cause man love is realy hard to find...so please dont **** it up bye cheating, thats the worst for a woman!!! good luck! i hope she will forgive you!!! it happend to me to...
2006-06-30 02:33:38 · answer #6 · answered by *ICE* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
few weeks is nothing, you are casually dating. call up a 3rd woman for a date tomorrow night.
but fair warning......very dangerous to dip your pen in the company ink...normally no good comes from it.
2006-06-30 02:32:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be heart broken, think youself is she so important or match for you. You can be in the non cheating list untill you had sex with her.
2006-06-30 02:42:05 · answer #8 · answered by baba 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jump off a skyscraper.
2006-06-30 02:30:48 · answer #9 · answered by driver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well like it or not it is cheating, but in the mean time, have fun, it is ok, you were not married, you know, I am from England and that is how we think here mate,,,
2006-06-30 02:36:44 · answer #10 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋