you should wait until you have sex..until you no longer have to ask this type of question..if you were ready..really ready you wouldnt have asked this question..see where im going with this..smeone who is ready for something just does it..sex is nothing to rush into..how old are you?! you're not missing out on anything trust me. sex can wait..it only makes things more commplicated..makes your emotions and feelings even more complicated..especially with people..theres MILLIONS of other things the world..friends..boyfriends..girlfriends..have to offer then sex..learn everyhting about them first and let sex be the last thing..the very last thing..have you met there parents? do you know there favorite cereal? do you know everything about them? have they ever been skidiving?! things like that!? i dont want you to regret anything..i know this is 2006 and we are in a popular state where it seems like peerpressure is out there and it seems as though everyone is doing it..just look at it this way..do you really care about that person? do you love that person? ask yourself what is sex going to do? what is it going to change? because sex can change people?! i am hoping this person is your boyfriend/girlfriend..because if they're your friend you should have more respect then just pass out something so presious out to friends. then ask yourself does this person deserve me? you're giving away yourself..you're giving away smething so precious..im sure since you are asking this you're a virgin..so think to yourself..are you ready for this? think of ways that person would treat you after you have sex? will it hurt or better your relationship/frienship? what are you gaining?loosing? there is no how sooon is too soon..if you're ready for it i say go for it..and PLEASE have protection..(condoms)..plenty of them for backup especially if it breaks..i hope you know all the endless stories..types..myths..and everything there is to know about sex..did you know you could or she could get pregnant..i am not sure if you're male or female..but a baby could come out of this..if you're not carefull you could get std's..sexual trasmitted disease..therese many things to ask yourself...when i have sex..am i ready for a baby when it comes? am i ready for a disease if it comes? are you ready for those things? please things things through..if that person pressures you and makes you feel uncomfortable then you shouldnt do it with them to begin with because if they disrespect you and dont repsect your wishes then they dont deserve it..if you're not ready you're not ready...i wish you the best of luck! please think about it! wear a condom! wear protection! hold on to it and give it out as though its a special prize..you dont want to be giving yourself to everybody now do you and you dont want to live life with regrets. i hope i helped sweetheart..think of many endless other things you two could do tgether..parks..movies..amusement parks...the pool...zoo's..concerts..games..anything..let sex be last!
2006-06-29 19:36:45
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answered by Calendar_Model 3
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16 or 17
2006-06-29 19:25:08
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answered by Anonymous
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It depends on how experienced you are... and how comfortable you've become in your own skin and with your own sexuality. But most importantly, it depends on whether YOU feel ready. By ready I mean this:
Envision yourself the day afterward. Envision him/her the day afterward. Do you like what you see? Or are you scared of regret, or that things might be "weird"? If you are, there's nothing wrong with that. But it DOES mean you're not ready. Wait until you can put yourself into it and *enjoy* it as fully your decision.
Don't let yourself be pressured when you're not sure yet. It's not fair to yourself in any way.
2006-06-29 19:27:54
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answered by stina 2
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as soon as you read this,
Just Read this...
Once upon a time there was a school called Degrassi,
And the children and the tenants were all fat and sassy.
Except for one little boy and his name was Rick,
People pushed him around untill he turned into a Frick.
And took a gun, took a gun, took a very big gun,
To degrassi to have himself a little bit of fun.
Then bang shot Jimmy,
And pointed it at Emma.
With Sean in the way oh what a big elimma.
But then Rick died,
And everything was fine.
Except Ashley’s kinda freakin,
After Craig lost his mind, and proposed at a party with his puppy dog eyes.
And Ashley Refused,
What a big surprise When he cried like a baby,
And went back to his hotel.
****** up the room and stuck Joey with a bill,
Then he went to a wedding and acted like a whore.
And he kicked Joey’s a*ss and he cried a little more.
Hey, remember back when Manny and Jt were going out,
And Jt was doing good but then began to doubt.
That his little stack of dimes couldn’t measure up to Craig’s
When he saw it in the locker room between Craig’s legs.
So in order to get out of his romantic slumps,
Some black kid gave him a magic penis pump.
But Manny found out and to make matters worse,
It turned out that Mr. Raddish used it first.
Well Paige got raped,
And Marco is gay.
Spinner gets boners and farts all day,
Toby is a dork,
And liberty is too.
Snake got cancer up the kazoo.
Sean’s on his own,
And Ellie likes to cut.
Alex is a b*tch,
And Manny is a s*lut.
Emma is kinda whiney,
And Terry got hit.
Hazel doesn’t never seem to do Jack-s*hit.
Degrassi is my favorite thing,
When the theme song plays, I always have to sing.
I hope that it never goes off the air,
I’d even miss Spinner’s hair.
2006-06-29 19:25:32
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answered by ? 3
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The best time is after your marriage. After all, virginity is still the best gift you can give to the person you choose to spend the rest of your life with. Sex is a sacred thing. You do it for love and not for lust.
2006-06-29 19:32:48
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answered by jho 2
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You should wait to have sex on your honeymoon.Then you are pure for your mate.
2006-06-29 19:34:39
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answered by Anonymous
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you'll know, but as soon as you get pressured to, back way off... it should be your choice. and makes sure the other person is ready too.
2006-06-29 19:29:11
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answered by Cerrah 2
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You should have sex when you love someone. If you dont' love him, don't do it. Always use a condom until you are married.
2006-06-29 19:27:01
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answered by Captain Salamander 4
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Long enough that you don't feel the need to ask anyone else.
2006-06-29 19:24:59
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answered by Anonymous
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Until the time is right when you feel it in your heart not your hormones
2006-06-29 19:27:33
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answered by pepperspray 2
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