This girl we've been talking for 2 1/2 weeks now or something like that and she went on a vacation to georgia with her friend and like 5 days ago when she told me bout it she told me to call every night and i call her tonight and she's like i have to go to sleep but all i hear is gigglin and shhh's do you think she still likes me or u think she jus like to talk now and it wont ever go any further....she has flirted many times b 4 but i'm jus worried now and if nothin is wrong then what do i say when i go to ask her out?
2006-06-29 19:15:28 · 20 answers · asked by John 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you need to be more descriptive..dont know how to quite answer this question..if i was you i wouldnt call her everynight..thats doing too much..DONT do it..she must be playing games with you..let her do some of the calling..dont let somebody make you do all the work in a relationship/friendship trust me i know from my past relatiosnhip/friendships...you dnt wanna do it..plus it makesit look like your desperate and that you're going to listen to everything she says..shes prbably laughing because she told you to call everynight and you're doing it like a duck..so shes having power..you sound young..how old are you and her anyway?i dnt know what the giggling is all about..sound like shes childish im telling you..dont ask her out..just be her friend for now and see hw things go into play..dont do all the calling! let her call you! girls dnt like to be called everyday or every 5minutes..let her chase you..let her call you! when you're older you'll understand better..hope i helped! good luck!
2006-06-29 19:24:15 · answer #1 · answered by Calendar_Model 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she is on vacation with her friend, she most likely did need to go to sleep, and they were shushing each other so that they would not get in trouble for not getting to sleep like they were told to do. What time did you call? They may be in a different time zone (Georgia is eastern time). I would not call so late for one thing. Next time you call her, tell her that you hope you did not get her in any trouble, and ask if instead of calling again during her trip, how about getting together when she got back as you would like to hear all about her trip and see any souvenirs she got or photos she took. Make a plan to get together for that, and then you will know if she wants to be just friends for now - which is fine. My husband and I started out as just friends, and now we have been married 34 years, and we are still best friends. That get together after the trip may be the thing to break the ice so that while you are enjoying the time together talking about the trip, you can then ask her out to the movies or on a picnic or whatever when the time feels right to do so. Good luck!
2006-06-30 02:29:30 · answer #2 · answered by still learning at 56 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like maybe her friend is teasing her when she is on the phone with you, it's probably nothing for you to worry about. When she returns simply ask her it she wants to hang out with you for the day and suggest a few places to go. Or ask her if she has any suggestions. It's too soon to judge her, besides budz you have only been talking to her for two and a half weeks. Just remember you don't own her. Hope things work out for you dude.
2006-06-30 02:28:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the way you feel,and ask her if she is interested or not, be frank, if she evades the question that is a sign that she is too naive, women flirt all the time and sometimes thats all they really want to do with a guy, so dont keep your hopes up just dont pay attention to her and watch her call you.
2006-06-30 02:21:57 · answer #4 · answered by sinful vampyra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are young enough not to get too caught up in her. Better improve your English and keep looking for better companions. If you really like her in specific, don't call her, let her call you next time.
2006-06-30 02:20:27 · answer #5 · answered by javob beruci 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, you have asked this question like 5 times already. would you just take the damn advice and move on? when she gets back, as her straight up if she want to be your girlfriend. yes or no. then move on. oi
2006-06-30 02:25:20 · answer #6 · answered by Cerrah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask. Vacation is vacation. Hang out til she gets back, invite her to dinner/coffee and ask her to be your girl.
2006-06-30 02:20:55 · answer #7 · answered by kzalterego 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea... she likes you, shes gigglin and having fun cause she is on vacation with her g/f, ... don't panic and don't CROWD her, ... she will be back and when she is home, a good opening line is lets meet at x-place and tell me about your trip.... easy...
2006-06-30 02:23:57 · answer #8 · answered by Maken trax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tsk..tsk...you deserve more, man, she's playing with you. Using you when she doesn't have anyone. hate to say it, but it's like a toy. be a man and face it, you have to know, are you a toy or more than that? ask her. and be brave enough to end whatever expectations you have, lots of girls there.
2006-06-30 02:32:15 · answer #9 · answered by mimosopher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is playing hard to get. or she waz showing of in front of her friends trying to act like she's better that u
2006-06-30 02:18:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋