My best friend died 5 years and I can't let her go. I was six years old when it happend, do you think it traumatized me?? Please she seems to haunt me....
2006-06-29 18:59:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
I mean she died 5 years ago, and was actually buried 5 years ao today.
2006-06-29 19:00:17 · update #1
its difficult when a close friend/loved one passes away but you need to stop dwelling on it, I KNOW!!! easier said than done, huh ? well i would seek therapy/counsler or someone you trust to talk about your feelings.getting things out is healthy for you,and from my own experience telling a complete stranger about my problems has really helped me.
2006-06-29 19:09:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not feel bad about it. Death is only a part of life and she is in a better place now. It is ok to mourn someone who meant a lot to you. My best friend died only three years ago this August and it still hurts. But you need to let go of your friend and move on with your life no matter how much it hurts. As for the haunting part, I suspect that it is just the memory of her trying to tell you something. How would your freind feel if she knew you were like this? Just let go and I promise that things will work out ok in the end.
2006-06-30 02:14:18 · answer #2 · answered by adrian w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the death of any close person is traumatizing. you have my sympathy. you are having a hard time letting the past go and that is ok to some extent. however you need to focus on the good times that you had and not the bad times. speak with a good grief counsler. and find a hobby that you love! start a fundraiser in their name and donate it to a charity you think she would have loved. she is not haunting you and you need to stop thinking like that. may peace find you and good luck!
2006-06-30 02:06:46 · answer #3 · answered by Luvbuz01 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-06-30 02:06:03 · answer #4 · answered by shirishbhate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think you should write all your feelings down on a piece of paper. Also, I think you should talk to someone, perhaps a counselor at school ...they will give advice on how to heal and maybe even suggest a few things you can do to move on and make you feel a little bit better.
P.S. I am sorry for your loss.
2006-06-30 02:06:55 · answer #5 · answered by monavyas15 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To meet is a pleasure and to part is always a sorrow.
Every one destined to die one day or other.That was your best friend you fell.life is not for this only please speak to your parents and brothers and sisters about this.
your life is more valid to your blood relations and if you die due to this problem what a loss you are creating to them the person who died was only your friend here you are relation.So for heaven sake be bold and face it .You forget that she was not your friend at all. That is all.
be cheerful May god bless you with all that is good to happen in life.
Good luck
2006-06-30 15:27:00 · answer #6 · answered by gkakkasseri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a hard thing to deal with at a young age. I still can't get over my cat dieng. I think that you need to calmly accept that your friend has moved on and he/she is watching over you. Your friend wouldn't want to see you in pain like you are now.
2006-06-30 02:07:01 · answer #7 · answered by Seshi-chan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to join the US Armed Forces. This will get your mind off your problems. You will feel good about yourself, AND you will get to kill people.
2006-06-30 02:28:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go seek a counselor spiritual and psychological so you can move on.
2006-06-30 02:03:26 · answer #9 · answered by willow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will be fine my brother died when i was 3 and i watched him get hit by a car i still dwel on it but i am fine...
2006-06-30 02:23:17 · answer #10 · answered by josie l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋