2006-06-29 18:44:32 · 26 answers · asked by angelicwing03 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
babygurl..trust me when i say this from my experiences...my past..DONT keep tabs on him..if yuo do you will loose him..i lost somebdy i cared abuot and lilked sooo much just because i wanted too much..just because i was doin too much..oon him too much..etc..guys like space..if you do this you're going to run him away..give him a chance to miss you..dont be all up underneath him..guys DONT like that..they dont like to be questioned all the time..the things you're doing that you think is right maybe are wrong..because in the past the things i was doing i only wanted him to be closer to me but instead it was doing the oppostie and running him away..now i have learned from my mistakes..give him space babygurl..let him breath..dont keep tabs on him..let him call you sometimes..let him miss you sometimes..he should be the one worried and questioning you and keeping tabs on you..good luck! hope i helped.guys like there freedom and space..if you constantly keeping tabs..hes going to really make sure he has his freedom and space and break up with you
2006-06-29 18:54:35 · answer #1 · answered by Calendar_Model 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-25 16:22:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the obvious answer is he needs his space, or he needs privacy. This is true, but another question you should consider is if you want to keep tabs on him, why are you wanting to do so?
Relationships take trust, and if you do not trust your boyfriend, would the wiser decision be to let him go?
Or do you suspect him of doing something immoral, or against your wishes. In such a case, you should confront him, with love, but with honesty as well. You shouldn't have the desire to watch and know his every move- you should be able to trust your boyfriend.
2006-06-29 18:56:05 · answer #3 · answered by Angel Isabella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy, but I'm trying to look through both a girlfriend's and boyfriend's point of view. Its not wise to do that. The girlfriend might not trust her boyfriend or she's afraid of him cheating on her. The boyfriend will probably get mad and think the girlfriend doesn't trust him. If there is no good communication after that, that is basically a curtain close on a relationship. So just talk to him. Trust him if you feel you can.
2006-06-29 18:53:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel that is not wise because, if you suspect something from him you need 2 just sit him down and ask him... What is he doing.. You shouldn't keep tabs on him because, he is going to feel as though you don't trust him and may want to break things off with you.. So I think you shouldn't keep tabs on him for these simple facts that I state...
2006-06-29 18:48:31 · answer #5 · answered by Diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know where you are at in your relationship with this person, but if you are feeling like you can't trust him, then maybe you need to ask yourself why. Either way, keeping tabs on him like that will scare him away, and it isn't healthy for you to be so obsessed about it.
2006-06-29 18:51:06 · answer #6 · answered by MM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not his every move, it isn't wise to be trusting to point of foolish either, if something doesn't make sense or if you know something is a lie then start treating him like public enemy number one but why bother better off just breaking up. if he hasn't done anything wrong then no give the poor guy some peace.
2006-06-29 18:47:45 · answer #7 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How could you realize if he have been cheating in case you the two lived interior a similar city? people who've a reliable adequate desire to cheat on their companion are commonly clever adequate to sidestep places the place they are going to be seen. have faith is a troublesome component to be certain in a relationship below any circumstances. I propose which you communicate over your concerns with your boyfriend and in case you do unlike what you hear, think back issues. reliable luck
2016-10-31 23:25:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously you gotta give a guy his space... i really dont understand why you would keep tabs on him...if u cant trust him without the tabs then u cant love him... im assuming uve been cheated on b4.
2006-06-29 18:47:28 · answer #9 · answered by XitachiX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not...you have to trust him and u have to respect certain bounderies about "alone time". keeping close tabs on him will only show him u are insecure and u might come off as possessive, jealous, and overall annoying. know ur limit!
2006-06-29 18:49:20 · answer #10 · answered by mtlfearie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋