2006-06-29 18:24:03 · 7 answers · asked by star4 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am a private investigator. I tell most people who come to me with this situation, "Where there is smoke, there is usually fire." If they still insist on hiring me, I take the case.
My point is, if you think he is cheating, you are probably right. Try not to get caught up in playing games.
2006-07-03 05:58:01 · answer #1 · answered by PI Joe 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have a girl friend chat him up, small tape recorder, or film it from a distance. Bare in mind that a man may respond to a girl, but it does not mean he wants to love her. If he's young, he has no idea about conseqences. You should just be honest with him, Lies or lack of communcation, are what kills most realationships. To find your sole mate, never lie, tell him everything, the good, the bad, and the ugly, if he's the one, he will stay with you, if he is not, then why care if he goes? True love is built on trust and firm foundations, if the foudations of a realationship are built on lies, it will fail. I never lie, my honesty gets me in trouble with some people, but never with the people that matter.
2006-06-30 01:46:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh this is good.... The thing is, most men aren't as good at keeping it a secret as they think they are. (and now we are gving away our "how we know "secrets to them here lol...) My x hubby cheated on me.... I knew the day it started... He started a new job, came in late... went straight to the bathroom - locked the door and showered (he never locked the door - so hence behavioral change from normal routines) then ome night i realized his wallet wasn't on the night table like it always was... ODD.. so I went looking for it.. Straight to the one place he didnt expect me to look - top shelf of the closet.. had to get a chair, felt around and there it was. Inside was a name and phone number. I wrote it down on a piece of paper and put my copy in my purse and his back in his wallet and put the wallet back where he had it..Im not the best at keeping things like that to myself, so i asked who she was (said the name) he said she was a supervisor at work. I pretended to believe him .. called work, there ws no supervisor by that name ... then when he didnt show up from work (hed said he was working OT in the first week) i called his department, and they said no he wasnt there... he then devised a story he was giving a guy home from work.. (whom lived about 40 miles from us) I asked if i could go with, and he said he didnt want the guy to know what his wife looked like, where he lived etc.. he was some redneck guy. LMAO...So since all the lies had accumulated ..(oh and found mints and gum in the car, which he never chewed or cared about popping a mint)I called the number... Asked if she knew him and she said they were dating , when i said who i was she said oh no we just work together. YEAH OK,.... I approached him the next day. with all the proof i had he still denied it until i finally told him i knew, then he spilled it....
So u dont have to follow them to catch them (i didnt have a car or i pbbly would have tho)... just PAY ATTENTION.. their usual habits will change, and they will either a) start distancing themselves from you , and or
b) start brionging you gifts or flowers, when they normally dont (guilty consience), but still spending less time at home.... But if you pay attention to detail you will always know.. and if you go through his car or wallet make sure u have GOOD reason to (I had never done it till i suspected), and make sure hes snoring good lol. and put everything back EXACTLY how he had it (they will pay attention, because thats where their secret is)
2006-06-30 01:51:31 · answer #3 · answered by Tam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have to be one step ahead of them. First off dont let him know you think he is cheating, cause then he will try to be even more sneakier. you just act normal, but if you see something or find phone numbers ,start calling them and see if its a female, then you can follow him, and catch him in the act if he is cheating! check his cellphone if he has one thats how i caught my BF ! good luck
2006-06-30 01:32:01 · answer #4 · answered by monica_ray18 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll catch him up into a lie sooner or later
2006-06-30 02:42:36 · answer #5 · answered by tigerlilly4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No point. If you think he is you already have trust issues. Therefore either way your relationship isn't that hot. I think it's time to move on.
2006-06-30 01:29:59 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell if i kno tell your friend one that he never seen to stalk him for you oooooohh yeah get pictures to then beat him and the other girl down
2006-06-30 01:29:10 · answer #7 · answered by gizelle c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋