i'm 14. every time i kiss a girl on the cheek, or she kisses me, I get a hard-on. i dont want to. one time she felt it too. is this a problem. if so, how do i fix it?
2006-06-29 18:17:45 · 9 answers · asked by j 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont believe there is any way to fix that because with how funny this is well.....my boyfriend of 3 years is 18 years old and he still gets a fat ***** every time he kisses me no matter where....i havent made out in about 3 years with anyone because he cant make out with me because he gets too excited...its VERY normal.
2006-06-29 18:22:21 · answer #1 · answered by queen_of_da_nile77 2 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Hah yeah that's happened to most of us. ESPECIALLY during puberty. Look it's bound to happen and it's nothing to be ashamed of.
You're obviously excited about hte idea of kissing, even if you are 100% sure there won't be sex in the future. It still is an exciting concept especially if oyu haven't done it too much.
Your best bet is to keep trying it. If she touches it, appologize and act shy if you're not already. She should forgive. She'll be flattered, won't care, or be annoyed/disgusted. If it's the last one just explain about how you have little control over it.
Puberty is a weird time and something having a mind of its own on your body doesn't help. You'll get it, I promise, just wait!
2006-06-30 01:22:07 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha, I remember those days when hard-ons would pop up everywhere! It shouldnt be a problem dude, if anything she probably thought it was funny! As you get older you learn to control them, but dont worry, try and see the lighter side of it.
2006-06-30 01:23:06 · answer #3 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, this is completely natural. It's called "raging hormones" aka..puberty. Unfortunately, you can't control when it will get hard. And as I recall...the only way to fix it is to either (A) Think about something else and hope it goes away or...(B) Masturbate. Good luck!
2006-06-30 01:22:22 · answer #4 · answered by carolscreation 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha direct quote from my gf
"ah.. been thegirl before"
yea lol... well u get over it after a while... especially after you get more experienced and a kiss starts being less of a big deal... lol... just put ure self back a little... iuno... and for some reason i think girls feels special when u pop one... so really dont feel like u should be embarrased... unless they are disgusted by you... in which case theyll go tell their freinds and stuff... and yea...
2006-06-30 01:31:34 · answer #5 · answered by XitachiX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your 14 god lord looking at a girl should give ya a hard on its normal it wont be like that forever just deal with it any way ya can
2006-06-30 02:15:51 · answer #6 · answered by icenhour76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yah dude. It's natural, and if it makes it a little less embarrassing the same thing happenned to me...uh...yah...that's an awkward moment...well thx for the 2 pts and I hoped I helped a bit.
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2006-06-30 01:27:20 · answer #7 · answered by Ace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive been that girl! i sat on a guys lap and well...you can imagine the rest. i just ignored it because im nice. forget it. because you can't control it.
2006-06-30 13:27:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey it is just hormones every person in the world gets them. it is normal
2006-06-30 01:20:33 · answer #9 · answered by katrina_love_casey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋