we are a family where u don't have boyfriends and where we don't really like any guys. If i tell her i have a crush on someone she might get mad at me. PLEASE HELP ME!
2006-06-29 17:46:51 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
honestly. my family is the same way. its not so much that noone dates, its just that to my parents its taboo, and my sister well, shes an idiot. best advice i can give you. she doesnt need to know. believe me. ive been there, and ive done that. she might not get mad... but she might treat you like an idiot or something. there really is no reason she has to know. unless you are dating this boy... she doesnt need to know. even if you were dating him, dont tell her till its serious. but if you feel the need you MUST tell her. just drop it casually, dont make it a big deal, cuz then she will.ask her how her day was... then just say "oh hey, i like this boy", or "oh, guess what? turns out i have a boyfriend now." something casual. if she blows upp, and gets mad, then your gunna have to deal wiht it. because thats what girls do.. they date. and if your sister cant deal wiht that.. then she has some problems. best of luck. hope i helped.
2006-06-29 17:59:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anna.R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why in the world would you be a family w/out boyfriends?! There is the problem right there. You should be the one mad at her. Tell her to get over it and get a life.
2006-06-30 00:50:23 · answer #2 · answered by Just a Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only natural for boys and girls to like each other, It doesn't have anything to do with your relationship with her and it wont change your relationship with her. Really it's something the two of you should be able to laugh and joke about, I wish I could be of help but I really don't totally understand your situation. I wish you well though.
2006-06-30 00:56:25 · answer #3 · answered by creeklops 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a fool for honesty. Just let her know, you even let her know you are worried about how she will react. I think it's easier to handle something early and honestly than to deal with all the mess involved in a blown cover-up.
2006-06-30 00:57:58 · answer #4 · answered by Michael E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is your sister and you should first tell her something that is not so bad like tell her you are going to kick some girls azz and seewhat she says, then if you think you can share things with her and confid in her then tell her, if she is olderthan you then you might be able to talk to her and have a cool relationship with her.good luck.
2006-06-30 00:50:52 · answer #5 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you are scared to tell members of your own family how you feel? What a strange family.
2006-06-30 00:49:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats up with your family?
if you like a guy you cant help it
tell her if she loved you at all she'd understand
2006-06-30 00:49:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she is scared that you might get hurt. assure her that you are a woman and you can handle it if your boyfriend dumps you. disclose to her how normal it is to love a man and tell her how much you love this guy. if she loves you she will be also happy for you.
2006-06-30 00:52:01 · answer #8 · answered by atahsina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats hard i would talk to some one who might understand or tell your sister how you feel but that you are talking it though not acting on your feelings. Can she give you advice
2006-06-30 00:49:57 · answer #9 · answered by lost one 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is impossible to never like a guy. I bet your sister has too. But if you feel too scared to ask her then dont.
2006-06-30 00:50:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋