it waz a blind date that my friends put together with me and a friend they knew and we hooked up and i'm happy with him abd she's been saying that i need to find a "man" for me but she wants me to go out with a different guy but once again i'm happy with the guy i'm goin out with. i've told her i waz meeting him but i haven't told her that we're goin out. she doesn't think i should go out with him.
2006-06-29 17:40:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it is the matter of ur happiness so do what ur heart says!
2006-06-29 17:43:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you say that it was a blind date, OK that's fine but what you need to ask your self why she doesn't like him and is it that she may be attracted to him her self and that's a ploy just to throw you off, its your life and no one can live it for you, if this guy makes you happy I say to hell with what her insecurity you need to tell her and ask her to be happy for you.......
2006-06-30 00:51:42 · answer #2 · answered by DonnaMaria B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesnt want you to go out with him cause maybe she likes him and too and by not telling her you would be lieing to her and going behind her back but you now what when you tell her yea shell be mad but she has to get over it just say you really like him and your sorry but isnt this what you wanted,and be like dont let a boy stop us from being friends and if she gets mad let her be mad cause shell know she wrong and shell get over it. Thanks and hit me up to tell me how my advice is.
2006-06-30 00:47:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jus tell her she cant live your life only you can...and if she doesnt understand then she aint the real thing cause a true friend will be satisfied at whatever decision you make.
2006-06-30 00:45:13 · answer #4 · answered by Lady_6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you care about your best friend, she hate that person that doesn't mean you have to hate that person too. if you're happy, then it's fine. Because if she really is your best friend, she would be happy for you too.
2006-06-30 00:43:51 · answer #5 · answered by a9113257311 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her. If she is your friend, she will respond honestly. If she is dissatisfied, explain why. If that doesn't work, buy her a bottle of bourbon and get her loaded.
2006-06-30 00:42:40 · answer #6 · answered by razor9876 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have priorities and confidence in yourself. if your friend, is truly your friend she will understand and support you, that's why there are friends for, to discuss and to be comprehensible with each other. talk to her and set things straight. is your choice and if she says she wont treat with you again then she was not really your friend.
2006-06-30 01:00:50 · answer #7 · answered by jk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her if she wants you to be happy! if she says yes then say well you really like this guy & it would make you happy if you had her approval
2006-06-30 00:45:01 · answer #8 · answered by brilliant blonde babe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not up to your friend who you date. Be honest with her and tell her to mind her own business. As long as he is good to you, i would not care what she thinks.
2006-06-30 00:44:20 · answer #9 · answered by housewives5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are happy with being with him, then you should tell your friend that you are happy . and if she doesnt like that, that too
bad. if you are happy and she your friend then she should be happy with who ever you chose to be with.
2006-06-30 00:45:13 · answer #10 · answered by jazzsinger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋