I mean , I wouldn't know cuz I'm a girl , but it's not that hard .You walk up to her ,say hi . I like it when a guy just walks up and is confident about himself , who wants to date someone who is all nervous ?When a guy is like that , it shows that they have something to be nervous about . If the girl doesn't like you, o well .What's the deal here men ?
2006-06-29 17:07:16 · 9 answers · asked by Naughty 'n' Nice Scorpio 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we're all secretly afraid of rejection...
we often have trouble speaking about our problems
it's all that be a menusch crap...
does you in after a while
2006-06-29 17:13:45 · answer #1 · answered by The greatest and the best. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experience, I've been nervous because I'm afraid of rejection- Guys crush really hard, well the shy ones do. I've had crushes on girls for so long and never got to tell them.
Do I have something to be nervous about, yeah... If the girl doesn't like me but knows I like her and doesn't care it would ruin that girl in my mind. I build up this image of them that they're so special and probably the sweetest person ever then -POW- What a *****. I'd hate to think of them in any other way.
Girls should pick up on that- see a nervous guy- Tell him you can tell he likes you and he won't deny it if it's true... Then give him a chance. :)
2006-06-30 00:16:27 · answer #2 · answered by superdink_dotcalm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are nervous when they really like soemone and have a crush on that person for some time. They want to make it seem perfect but realizing the pressure of this opportunity they get jittery. It happens to me and I am a girl. So it goes both ways. If you are not nervous, not even slightly it shows that you are not vey much interested and are only looking for some action. I love shy men....they are confident once you get to know them.
2006-06-30 00:13:54 · answer #3 · answered by funkymonkey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys typically like to stay with their group of friends... guys typically enclose themselves in a shell of coolness, pride and other things that they could boast about (ever heard the term 'poser')
guys don't like to get out of this shell and express their weakness by doing something new. walking up to a girl is a personal experience, your friends are not behind you. the guy is basically offering himself to the girl in his weakest form. he can be rejected. this is what he's so scared about.
he's out of his shell and he could just be hurt by this girl by a few words(i know, sounds girly, but it's the truth)
that's why they get so nervous and want everything perfect
2006-06-30 00:18:18 · answer #4 · answered by spec1227 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it has to do with intimidation. when a guy talks to a woman he's attracted to, the first thing that goes through his mind is how beautiful she is, and how she can have her pick of any man... and she's chosen him; not wanting to fall into that 'all others' category.
My suggestion to the guy would be to... be himself. Talk to her to find common interests, then expound on those interest. Some would call that collecting intel; i call it growth :c)
2006-06-30 00:27:42 · answer #5 · answered by furious_male 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I know that i am just overwhelmed by natural amazing female cuteness and the overwhelming urge not to say something really stupid and be embarrassed and rejected
2006-06-30 00:13:04 · answer #6 · answered by scholaryoshi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a girl and its hard to talk to cuys who are more "popular" i guess or just cooler. sometimes. i guess i care to much what ppl think
2006-06-30 00:18:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we affraid you might find something wrong with us ,and guys want to be cool and smoth with the girls
2006-06-30 00:15:33 · answer #8 · answered by RON M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys don't like to talk about r feelings. we can't control that situation and it scares us somewhat. we don't want to be rejected because we sometimes fell unprotected from what might happen. personally me idk about others
2006-06-30 00:12:07 · answer #9 · answered by jcspuddin2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋