Tell my dad that she wants a divorce???Ok my dad all ways have been verbally abusive to my mom,i think he even cheated on her a couple of times.Ok my mom don't seem like the type that would cheat on my dad,but latley i hear she's has been telling family members,how tired she is of my farthers s*h*i*t and that she has a friend on the side.Is she getting ready to made another step by leaving my dad???
2006-06-29 17:05:50 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i want them to get a divorce because once my mom left she seem happy when they were apart!!!
2006-06-29 17:19:03 · update #1
I arfiad so sweetie,but hey look at it this way your mom will better again,trust me i know when throught the same situation
2006-06-30 13:46:47 · answer #1 · answered by It's all Love!!! 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Most likely, but think about it. Both of them is better off apart and they might even end up with someone that they'll be happy with. I know it's hard to see or even have a thought of your parents with someone else, but you may even benefit from all this. For example, if mom says no, go to dad. Or it may even set up some standards of what you want in life and the kind of person you want to share your life with. Who knows?!?!? Just remember things happen for a reason, all you could do is hope for the best and learn from this experience.
2006-06-30 00:18:18 · answer #2 · answered by hipnchaotic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she's a wise woman if she does. Nobody should suffer from emotional abuse; it has far greater effects than physical abuse. She also has not taught her children that men should respect the children's mother; consequently the kids can grow up and think they are supposed to live at the hands of abusers, or become an abuser. We all deserve to be respected and should give respect.
2006-06-30 00:11:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one should ever have to put up with abuse of anykind. If your mom has put up with it at all she shouldn't continue. Would your dad put up with abuse?? I guess u will know what mom has in her mind when she is ready for u to know. Maybe ask her. Mom's need someone to talk to also. Abuse should never be allowed tho. I hope everything works out for the best for everyone involved.
2006-06-30 00:15:20 · answer #4 · answered by kategiz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could happen, if they don't get some issues resolved. What ever happens don't pick a side .
Don't put any blame on yourself. Sometimes this is the best. It happens in all families. A separation doesn't always lead to divorce some times there is reconciliation
2006-06-30 00:12:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but they have already "left" each other by having affairs. It sound like your mom is better off without your "abusive dad". Encourage her to do what makes her happy. Life is so short. It is not worth it to be so angry all the time.
2006-06-30 00:08:33 · answer #6 · answered by Joseph H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your dad is doing all those things to your mom don't you think she deserves to find someone who is going to treat her with the respect that she deserves. Instead of dwelling on whether or not your mom is going to divorce your dad or not think about the bad things your dad does to her, does she really deserve that????That is really the step she needs to be taking..
2006-06-30 00:19:39 · answer #7 · answered by clara s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have enough information to say weather or not she is going to leave him, but try to understand that that could be a good thing. I know it would be hard on you, but your mom doesn't deserve to be abused. Try to be supportive of your mom at this time. You could suggest that they go to marriage counseling or try to talk with your mom about the situation.
2006-06-30 00:11:12 · answer #8 · answered by Maggie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though as children it hurts us 2 know that our parents may be splitting up, but we have 2 remember they are grown and that it is not up 2 us. We are not in their shoes and we don't know everything that made it 2 come this so we should respect their decisions.
2006-06-30 00:10:26 · answer #9 · answered by India 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope that she is. No woman deserves to be verbally abused and cheated on. If she is cheating, good for her. I hope that she has found someone to treat her good.
2006-06-30 00:09:10 · answer #10 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he abuses her, then she should get out of the relationship. If he is cheating on her, then he obviously does not want her anymore. I'm sorry, but that is how it is.
2006-06-30 00:07:54 · answer #11 · answered by Pirate_Wench 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋