I'm in love with a man that doesn't love me back. He tells me he has feelings for me and that he wants me in his life but he does nothing for me and I do a lot for him. He tells me because he has been hurt in the past, he is not sure if he wants to fall in love again because he is always the one that does everything and gets nothing. I have known him for 7 months now and I have helped him with anything that he needed. I was there for him when no one else was and I did for him when no one else would. We had such a wonderful time together and then he just backed away from me. I wish I could just let him go and move on with my life, but what do you guys think?
2006-06-29 16:45:23 · 9 answers · asked by mamalovevin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
are you sure this is your story? sounds very much like me.
but unrequited love is just that,unrequited. anyways, it's his lost, not yours.find someone else who deserves your love, i know i will.
2006-06-29 17:10:45 · answer #1 · answered by clueless 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you do not share the same feelings then you two will always run different directions,with your feelings.Ibelieve that you can love someone who only has what you would call the like sedrome. That way they do not have to move foward with a person who you really arn't ready for .I am sorry to say that you are better off just finding someone else who shares the same feelings as you.
2006-06-29 23:52:37 · answer #2 · answered by roady_cat_elgo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea i know how ya feel same problem here. but i just keep flirting and im always there for him and hes there for me so i think if u establish a good base as friends then it could turn to more so stay there for him and keep in touch with him dont just let him go not yet at least
2006-06-29 23:51:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you really cared about him this much then i suggest you go and confront him about your feelings... tell him not to be scared because you're not like his former gf's...show him how different you really are and that you would do anything to prevent him from getting hurt... true love only happens once and when it does happen, grab it and guard it with your life!... good luck!
2006-06-29 23:51:37 · answer #4 · answered by pOp taRts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on...life's too short to waste your time with someone who can't return your feelings.
2006-06-29 23:57:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on.
2006-06-29 23:49:32 · answer #6 · answered by G.V. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how u feel...my guy wants 2 take it slow, even tho we have had sex....i really like him n i think he likes me, i think guys get scared..good luck
2006-06-29 23:49:28 · answer #7 · answered by mazzygirl83 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then u too love some one else..
2006-06-30 00:39:25 · answer #8 · answered by dins 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should move on
2006-06-29 23:48:56 · answer #9 · answered by Lindsey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋