at first when i met them (he and his gf)i asked him privately if she is his gf or not!he said no ,she is just his cousin,and later i will know the truth!But then he said to my mom that she is his "friend"(gf).he still treats me very nicely.i dont get that ,if he has a gf,why is he so kind and cool like that???
2006-06-29 16:44:32 · 14 answers · asked by boulevard of broken dreams 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it sounds like this guy is a player. If u started to likes him and secretly dating him, and she (his gf) finds out, you'll be in BIG BIG BIG BIG TROUBLE, so don't let his kindness and sweet words put you on that spot! BE CAREFUL!
2006-06-29 16:49:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a nice and kind because he feels good about himself and knows he will be nice and kind no matter what. He is probably in a position where everyone wants to be his girlfriend, including you, am I right? Depending on how old you are, it might just mean this girl said she was his girl friend because she wishes it were true. Sometimes that happens. Or maybe, he doesn't want a girlfriend, but has gotten himself into a sticky position and can't get out of it because he is nice. Let him be nice to you, but friendship alone is a wonderful thing to grow.
2006-06-29 16:51:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have had the same problem my advice to u is not 2 get involved with him b/c its very obvious hes a wanna be player lol all jokes aside hes wrong he likes thats why hes being so nice but girl he aint nothing but a player wannabe jus like he doing his g/f wrong 9 times outta 10 he gone do the same things to u so if i was u i wouls jus leave him alone tell him eitha break it of wit his g/f adn talk 2 u or jus dont mess wit u no more he playin u and his g/f!
2006-06-29 16:49:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-14 03:02:38 · answer #4 · answered by shaughnessy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well obviously he isnt that cool, if at first he lied to you about her being his girlfriend. And this guy might just be a nice guy, not every guy that is nice to you is going to like you.
2006-06-29 16:48:03 · answer #5 · answered by kristie_94 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a guy can't be nice to a girl w/o her thinking we are hitting on her. the part about lying about the gf i can't condone but a guy can just be nice.
2006-06-29 16:55:23 · answer #6 · answered by jcspuddin2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to him and ahhh see if u 2can go out alone nd stuff and maybe sumthing will happen if he doesnt make the first move u make the first move lol:)
2006-06-29 16:48:30 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one of two things
1) he is being a perfect gentlemen and a good friend
2) he really likes u but either doesnt want to admit it to himself or to u
2006-06-29 16:49:08 · answer #8 · answered by god_of_the_accursed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he is a player"
2006-06-29 17:05:01 · answer #9 · answered by Weeny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's a jackass to be liking someone else besides his girlfriend....if he was really kind he would break up with her first
2006-06-29 16:48:53 · answer #10 · answered by AshAnn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋