I've been going out wid a guy for 3 years buh he's confused whether or not to be 2gether cuz we are frm diff family background, diff religion...he thinks it wont work out buha t the same time tells me how much he luvs me n i luv him a lot..i donno wha to do...
2006-06-29 16:16:32 · 6 answers · asked by Lover 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Have these issues caused problems before? If they are a problem, are you willing to compromise or negotiate to come to an agreement? I believe that if you two really love each other you'll be able to work out the differences. No matter what anyone else says.
2006-06-29 16:25:21 · answer #1 · answered by doubleginxd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very difficult for people from different backgrounds and religions to build a lasting relationship. The fact that you have been together for three years says you do have a lot in common. But maybe not the right types of stuff for raising a family and such. The two of you should go to a relationship councilor and discuss your concerns and decide whether a future together is worth the sacrifices you'll both have to make.
2006-06-29 23:23:15 · answer #2 · answered by Annette R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you've been dating for three years then you have been able to deal with some of the differences already. Maybe you could talk to a counselor together especially about the religious differences because you need to decide things like that before starting a family. If you love each other and want to have a future together and are both willing to work at it then you can make it work for you. Best of luck to you both.
2006-06-29 23:30:02 · answer #3 · answered by patticakes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your font suggests you are very young. You should date as if you are trying to find a husband to marry and have kids with. If you were to marry him all these conflicts would be tenfold. There are many fish in the sea so don't waste any more time on him. In six months you look back on it and wonder why you spend 3 years wasting time on him...I promise!
2006-06-29 23:49:27 · answer #4 · answered by Elizabeth l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I be confused by u riting so wha ya gunna do? I be fine din a new bf. May be 1 dat nos 2 read n rite. Den maybe he can take care a ya since ya cant read n rite. Gotta read n rite to suc seed. Dis man of yos is a loser! Get yerself a man who done read n rite! Like me bby! I knows how to read n rite!
2006-06-30 00:01:10 · answer #5 · answered by idspudnik 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, have these things caused conflicts for you in the past? I think you two are just going to have to figure this out for yourselves. Best of luck.
2006-06-29 23:21:37 · answer #6 · answered by Nic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋