I have 4 years clean,recently I ran into an old friend who I've always had a crush on only he still uses.He works full time and has nice things(cars,house ect)He is a private person who doesn"t"tweek"like I used to.He doesn't use when we are together.He makes me laugh and feel good about myself and when we are apart I think about hin constantly.He encourages me to continue on the road to recovery and I don't have an urge to use but the thought is always in the back of my mind because I used for 15 years. We live 2 hours apart so we only see each other every other wknd.Do you think I am setting myself up for relapse?I know that he is going to ask me to move in with him as he makes little comments looking for my responses. I AM CONFUSED!He treats me better than any guy I've ever been with.What should I do???
2006-06-29 16:04:15 · 3 answers · asked by pammi_b 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As hard as it may be, I think you should steer clear of this guy. If he is using and you move in you will more than likely give in to temptation. You have been clean for four years why jeopardize that for a man?
2006-06-29 16:10:01 · answer #1 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 2⤊ 3⤋
yes pls dont go down that road . this is a test buy GOD There is a better man out there for you u. drugs destory lifes l am child from a family that used drugs with all the same things those material things are nothing . ask ur self do u want to be clean or not because if you get with him thats well happen u will not be clean for long
2006-06-29 16:22:05 · answer #2 · answered by DYNOMITE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him in order for u to be together he needs to quit too because u could find some in his house and have a relapse!!
2006-06-29 16:09:43 · answer #3 · answered by Ashleyy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋