Im noticing that my freind is not eating and...?

Question

im noticing that my 14 year old freind is not eating and talks about calories too much...like if she eats something she would say something like ...I had 200 calories and i feel so fat...i would tell her that shes fine the way she is and not to worry about what she eats so much cuz shes so young...but she hardly eats and never wants to go to restaurants or macdonalds and stuff like that anymore..could she b anorexic??what should i do to help her?

Answer 1

It sounds like your friend had anorexia. I would suggest that you contact either her parents or a school counselor. This is a very serious problem that can cause loss of all of her teeth and eventually even shut down all of her organs. She may be angry with you at first, but you could be the one that can save her life. Please take my advice and get her some help ASAP. Good luck and I will keep her in my prayers. If you need to talk, feel free to e-mail me.

Answer 2

Well she is in the point of life where she is going through maturity and for women they need those calories so there bodies can develop properly. To starve yourself like that is the worst way to loose weight. Tell her she really needs to eat about 2000-2500 calories a day. If she keeps on doing this not just her physical appearence will be damaged but her mind will also. Please have a heart to heart talk with her.

Answer 3

Im kind a like that maybe she just is not hungry cuz like im never that hungry but im not trying to be anorexic or anything my stomach has just gotten use to not eating a lot so im not hungry and all girls have some kind of problem with their bodyd so thats prolly y she freaks about carbs cuz she thinks shes fat like somedays i think im fat but i know im not cuz im 5'9" and 117 lbs. And not an ounce of fat on me(thats what my mom tells me) but i feel fat sometimes but talk to her about it if ur concerned cuz u would rather be safe than sorry so TALK TO HER its the best thing.

Answer 4

do not eat too much.
just be relax every time
stop drink coffee
stop smoking
stop drink alcohol
minimize to consume eggs or meat,
eat fish, consume fish which have scale
eat many tomatoes
eat many cucumbers
eat much green vegetables
drink mininum 1,5 - 2 litres water a day
do any sport 4-5 days a week
and you will be healthier.
God always bless you. Amen.

Answer 5

Tell her that if she starves herself now, when she's in her 20s she'll blow up like a balloon. It may be harsh, but it's true based on current scientific research.

And if she really is anorexic, find a way to get her help NOW before she causes permanent damage to herself or kills herself. Yes, anorexia can be deadly.

Answer 6

i recently had the same problem. i found out that my sister was throwing up. The best thing to do is just keep telling your friend how beautiful you think she is. Another thing you should do is get her together with a councelor. Sometimes you cant solve your own problems and you have to look to someone else. All in all, just be there for her.

Answer 7

you need to tell some one about it parent counselor someone who can help i went through the same thing when i was 16 and with the help of friends and family i was able to get through it i was 5 ft 4 and was down to 98 lbs so you really need to help her out. I will keep her in my prayers Good luck

Answer 8

You should find an adult u trust and talk to him/her about it. She/He can help you find organization or whatnot to help her and teach u how to talk to her... If you find she gets angry with you and pulls away from you, be a good friend and make sure she gets help and stay within reach but not too close. She will need someone in the future.

Answer 9

786.
HOW SWEET OF YOU! i really want to eat something, by fastening so hard for so long iam feeling like ''skull apart''!