Went out with a guy 15 years older than me. We went out twice, got along great. When he wanted to get ahold of me he would call me obsessively. One night 5 times (two voice mail msg) before i had a chance to respond. I texted him "how r u" early one eve and awile later he texted back. "sorry it took me so long to respond, I'm on a date". Is he playing head games with me to make me jelous or was that a hint to get rid of me?
2006-06-29 15:52:19 · 14 answers · asked by madraven4 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This guy is obviously insecure, and trying to make you jealous because he couldnt geta hold of you, GET OUT NOW!!!!! before he really gets psyco.
2006-06-29 15:55:04 · answer #1 · answered by Rafxsat 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He said that because he wanted to hang out with you,but you didn't respond back on time.he is also dating another girl, and she was the first to respond. He wanted something to do that night, and she got back to him first. He might have been a little bitter that you didn't respond quick enough. And when you did respond back he wanted to let you know that he can get other girls too and not just you. I might be dating a few guys a time but, when ever I am considering hanging out with one of them I hang out with the first one that respomds quickest to me. I like to know what I'm gonna be doing later in advance, and not wait to the last minute. Hope this is helpful.
2006-06-29 16:01:11 · answer #2 · answered by Princeton M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he was tellling you the truth. Is thisthe first time he said something like this. I would ask him straight out is this relationship going somewhere or what. Then ask yourself if you like for this relationship to go further. In todays world we don't need to be playing the field like we are promise tomorrow. I would ask myself if he's the right guy for me have he done anything thus far to give you doubts about his feelings towards you. Also, did you to agree to see other people during this relationship or what. If so maybe he's not playing head games with you.
2006-06-29 16:01:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that he doesn't want an exclusive relationship with you. You stated that you only went out twice, that doesn't seem like anything serious. If he wanted to get rid of you, I would think that he'd come right out and tell you or completly ignore you.
2006-06-29 15:57:25 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it really matter? Either one shows immaturity, and your suspicion suggests that you aren't that trusting of him. Move on to someone else. Plenty of fish in the sea, especially if you are willing to date anyone up to 15 years older than you. The odds are good, even if the goods are odd....
2006-06-29 15:55:10 · answer #5 · answered by auntiegrav 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he cares about you alot but yall got togather at the wrong time. His not yet over his baby mother and its gonna take awhile for him to do so. he should'nt have gotten in a relationship until he was completly over his ex. Im so sorry but you were a rebond. He really cares but he still loves his baby mother. stop talking to him until you know for sure his over her. oh yea and a little advice for you dont go out with a guy with kids unless his been COMPLETLY broken up with his baby mother at least a year.
2016-03-26 22:33:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the head case. Sounds like he is a jerk and playing some kind of game. You can do better.
2006-06-29 15:55:15 · answer #7 · answered by bluechick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard to answer bc I don't know how old either of you are. I will tell you this--no guy who is serious about you would go on a date with someone else, much less "casually" rub your face in it after.
He's an idiot!
2006-06-29 15:54:50 · answer #8 · answered by Miro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably is trying to make you feel like he did maybe he thought you were on a date and he tried to make you feel bad. Either that or he got a mixed message.
2006-06-29 15:58:00 · answer #9 · answered by kkrohn993 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him. He sounds way too possessive and if he is playing head games, that spells future disaster to me. RUN!!!!
2006-06-29 15:57:16 · answer #10 · answered by jeanhack42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋