My girlfriends have told me that I'm perfect girlfriend material. On one hand I like horseback riding and art museums, but I also love football and muscle cars. I'm independent and not clingy or possessive, and I'm okay with it if my boyfriend wants to have a guys night once in a while. So why is it that I can't keep a boyfriend for more than a month?
2006-06-29 15:49:42 · 6 answers · asked by Amazon Lily 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lol . . . don't mean to be mean . . . your gfs said that you are the perfect gf material . . . lol
I guess that is why . . . your gfs are more interested in hooking up with you than the boys.
The boys are seeing you as one of the guys . . . you don't exude sexuality . . . either in your appearance or your attitude. Basically those boys are your friends . . . and that is it. You are a buddy or a chum because you have the same interest as them . . . but without the special kick.
Question . . . what do you do during these relationships. . . kiss, talk, or just hang out. Also . . . look at age . . . if you or them have not fulfilled your career goal or finished college . . . I wouldn't be in a hurry to be in a relationship . . . because it is a distraction to what is really important your future.
2006-07-12 07:55:35 · answer #1 · answered by Tag Your It 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you might be focusing on trying to be a nice respectful girlfriend, and not allowing your true feelings to come out. You don't want anything to go wrong, so you don't allow yourself to get attached. You just focus on being a fun loving girlfriend. Try and let your true feelings show in your next relationship. Don't just try to please him, and be the perfect g/f. Love needs a little challenge sometimes. Be yourself, don't be what he wants you to be. I'm sure he will love the real you. If not, you don't want him anyway. Good luck...:)
2006-06-29 16:05:47 · answer #2 · answered by Emily :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you ugly? Or maybe they like you and after two months you aren't sexual enough so that move on? Nobody would really know except you.
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2006-06-29 15:59:57 · answer #3 · answered by txguy8800 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you ar enot attached enough or maybe these guys were not right fo ryou. Also do you have sex? I am not condoning premarital sex but if you don't maybe they only stuck around for the sex. There are so many reasons guys ditch girls, but one day when you meet the right guy he will stick around.
2006-06-29 15:54:27 · answer #4 · answered by anonymous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're prolly just not dating the right guys.
2006-06-29 15:59:21 · answer #5 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they start to see you more as a friend.
2006-06-29 15:57:33 · answer #6 · answered by shakia27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋