well it turns out i am not pregnant but i think yhat i should in order for him to marry me we have been talking about getting married so long and nothing yet i dont know what to do and since my period came today it tells me that i am not pregnant ,i must say that i am a little diappointed by not being pregnant .
2006-06-29 15:48:05 · 12 answers · asked by Simone D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry to hear that
2006-06-29 15:50:36 · answer #1 · answered by puppet7112 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the wrong reason to get pregnant. Your marriage will not be based on your love for each other but the fact that you could have a child together. And lots of people can have a child together without love. You need to build a relationship based on love and then get married and then get pregnant.
Children are hard, hard work and often cause issues in marriages because all of a sudden there is this tiny human that requires almost 24 hours of your time and you find yourself with no time for each other which will wreak havoc if you do not have a relationship based on love.
2006-06-29 22:53:12 · answer #2 · answered by girlysledgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Simone D., First off i would like to say never try to get pregnant to have a man marry you, if he has not asked for your hand in marriage yet and your not carrying his baby what makes you think he would marry you by conceiving a bundle of joy, girl rethink your thoughts about that having a baby is a very serious think. say for instance that you got pregnant with his child and he left you neither did he even think about marrying you? you would probably go in a stress mode and loose the baby that you wanted to have so bad. Trust me, a baby does not keep a man. Good luck Simone.
2006-06-29 23:20:35 · answer #3 · answered by tmoni1970 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, Well , Well, sorry to inform you that kids will not keep a man in your palms to do as you wish. They dont send stupid men from heaven anymore. They come will equip in the brain department and can smell your tricks a mile away. If you want him to marry you than continue being his friend. No tricks allowed because the more tricks you come up with the more and more you will only talk about marriage and never see it.
When a man spots a sincere women that is not desparate he tends to feel secure. It give him a feeling that you want be so quick in leaving him for any old garbage that come along. BE PATIENT THINGS HAPPEN WHEN YOUR NOT LOOKING.
2006-06-29 23:00:36 · answer #4 · answered by butterfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost, SHAME ON YOU!! If he won't marry you prior to the child, what makes you think he will marry you once a child is conceived? And let's say he does. Do you really want a man who only married you because you became pregnant?
Having a child to "fix" problems or "make things right" when they aren't to begin with is more than asking for trouble. Go ahead with your agenda and a year from now you will be back on yahoo answers saying how he isn't there and wanting to know how could he have done this to you when in reality you would have done it to yourself.
2006-06-29 22:52:52 · answer #5 · answered by adagia27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let's face it, you're not disappointed about not being pregnant, you're disappointed about not being married. you can't trick a guy into marrying you. even if you do love this guy and even if you were pregnant, would you really want to marry him if it wasn't meant to be and ended up in a terrible divorce? if he wants to marry you, he'll ask. don't push him or try to get pregnant. that will only send him in the other direction. give him some more time. see what happens and if you're not engaged by the time you thought you'd be, then maybe it will be time to move on, let him go, and find someone else.
2006-06-29 23:16:44 · answer #6 · answered by aj607 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you want a child for all the wrong reasons. You can't possibly expect that getting pregnant will make a man marry you. Does he want children right now? I think you need to focus on the obvious problems in your relationship before you bring a child into the world.
2006-06-29 22:54:33 · answer #7 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you ever consider getting pregnant to keep a man or to get him to marry you...........BIG MISTAKE GIRL!!! you can't trap a man. If he loves you, you will marry. Kids should not be brought into this world for any reason other than you love kids and you are mature enough to raise them alone, cause he will leave you if you trap him. You need to grow up.
2006-06-29 22:51:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trap a man into marriage by intentionally getting pregnant without him knowing? That's a divorce and single parenthood waiting to happen.
2006-07-06 11:36:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well congrats! you are trying to keep your man by getting pregnant? USE BIRTH CONTROL!!! your man obviously is avoiding making a commitment so you should avoid getting knocked up and creating anymore bastard children in this world!!! Getting pregnant wont make him marry you- it may make him run!
2006-06-29 22:53:07 · answer #10 · answered by ChrissyLicious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DEPENDS ON HOW U TAKE IT BUT BEFORE U DO GET PREGNANT ENJOY LIFE GIRL MY SIS IS SUFFERING NOW !
2006-06-29 22:52:46 · answer #11 · answered by BIANCA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋