after my friend(L) took her to the store he masterbated, she found the evidence it was fresh he always tickles the girl and pats her rear end all the time is that a sign? L was molested @ 12 with her step dad. and (L) said that it is simular in her situation. she dosen't know what to do confront him without accusation or what. she dos'nt want it to happen to the girl she is 7. (L) came home and saw it. the girl had panties and (L) shirt on. (L)dos'nt want to leave them alone. but at times she has to. also does he tell her not to say anything, (L) talked to the girl and said not family, friends or anyone else should touch you in the privates. the girl said no one has touched her is this the beginning of trouble or is (L) over reacting because of what her step dad did? how do you know i need the signs. (L) is really worried please help
2006-06-29 15:37:13 · 15 answers · asked by Judy P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Take the child to the hospital and tell them what has occured. The hospital will be able to check the child and also get an experienced child psychologist to talk with the child in a way that will not scare her. tell your friend that she is this girls only protection and she has to do just that, PROTECT HER!!! Please do not let this go on. If the mother does not want to do this then you do this. You protect the baby. Do what your heart tells you to do. If you didnt already know what to you wouldnt have asked that. Please get up and talk to your friend and get the child to the hospital...PLEASE!!!
2006-06-29 15:44:29 · answer #1 · answered by lvb524 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 17 you somewhat are nonetheless sooooooo youthful and immature. comprehend i'm diverting besides the undeniable fact that it makes you ask your self what danger her marriage has lengthy time period if it really is a huge project to her? The situation her husband has is for sure something that's of no importance to his health by any potential, in the different case he would have received remedy earlier. I truly have heard of this as even as my daughter became youthful she had a situation that became genetic and the representative had pronounced it became an same stress as human beings been born with too many (or a lot less) fingers, feet etc. in spite of if her husband agreed, which i imagine he will be stupid to do and flow ahead the possibilities of a short amputation could be uncommon with the NHS in recent times as if no longer bothering him it could be classed as non urgent beauty surgical operation. evidently the female is merely making excuses no longer to shed weight as lets face it she might want to flow swimming with different relations, acquaintances or perhaps or her own. it really is between the superb methods to get the burden off. with the exception of something else do any persons truly imagine to look at all people's feet on the swimming pool? I absolutely do not, even as contained in the water they are not considered besides. Sorry, yet i imagine this lady's request is outrageous and he or she has a great number of starting to be as a lot as do.
2016-10-13 23:34:04 · answer #2 · answered by muniz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This man does not need to be near children. That little girl should be removed from this situation immediately!!!!! The child also needs to know it was nothing that she did wrong, that the man was to blame for all this.
He is molesting that child, even is he's not touched her privates. The mother is NOT overreacting at all. In fact, she needs to move faster and get the child out of there, regardless of her circumstances.
2006-06-29 15:45:49 · answer #3 · answered by ladyangelovely 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a mother no matter who the person is u should not trust them 2 the extent of allowing them 2 touch ur child in any matter that involves u feeling uneasy and unsure of. Don't wait 4 it 2 happen even if the person gets their feelings hurt if they love u they will understand why u did it.
2006-06-29 16:31:06 · answer #4 · answered by India 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is that uneasy, there is something more than her imagination at work. Something needs to be done to stop it.
I have a female cousin who loves to have little boys admire her breasts. I actually discussed the situation with her daughter because the daughter has a very young son. I would rather have resentment toward me than let the little boy fall victim to sexual abuse on any level.
2006-06-29 15:46:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes this is a sign that something else is going on with him and the grandchild i would report him as soon as possible . Do not over look the matter the child is at state here.
2006-06-29 15:45:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have the feeling something isn't right, then its not right. Gut instinct is seldom wrong. Get her out of the situation and get her to a counselor. Even if he hasn't done anything to her, there's a chance he could.
2006-06-29 16:06:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds really bad, and even though I wish I could say it was innocent for the girls sake, it sounds like anything but.... she should never leave her again, and should comfront the man. If he hasn't done anything, but is thinking about it, maybe it would scare him into getting help.
2006-06-29 15:47:04 · answer #8 · answered by petluvr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not cool. She does not need to be around that guy, if you need to find another person to watch her then do it. why should a 7 year old have to grow up with her grandpa abusing her, she will have really bad mental and emotional problems. DO SOMETHING!!!!
2006-06-29 15:45:03 · answer #9 · answered by Sam S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mother's know, whether they want to admit it or not. Tell your friend to follow her first mind...get that baby out of there and seek counseling. Better safe than sorry.
2006-06-29 15:44:10 · answer #10 · answered by nish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋