m n a relation ship but i dont really like the person im dating as more than just a friend. i have went out with the guy i love 2 times already. the first time we broke up is cuz he heard that i had cheated on him, but he didnt believe that i didnt till he was already goin out with sombody else. then the second time we broke up... i broke up with him cuz i was grounded for about a month and couldnt see him, and while i was grounded he spent all of his time with one of my best friends and when i would talk to her at school she would always tell me how much fun they were having. so i got the idea that he was cheating on me with her but he wasnt, it was just jelousy. he is bipolar and will start yelling at any moment, my parents dont like him cuz of bad first impressions and want even give him a chance now, and now he lives in a different town . but i love him to death and i would do ne thing for him and ne thing to be with him and now he wants me back.. should i get back with him or not
2006-06-29 15:33:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you should find someone else to date. You'll fall in love again.
2006-06-29 15:36:45 · answer #1 · answered by Landslide 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. This is already WAY too complex and it won't get any better. Right now, I think you're feeling a little scared and maybe desparate. Maybe you just want somebody. I think the fact that he gave you attention is what you want now. But it IS NOT good attention. You need to see that. Everything you wrote is major drama. Why would you want that for yourself?? Just relax and chill and be okay with the way things are right now.
You both will move on probably in the next couple of weeks.
AND, you said "I love him to death". But he doesn't love you. You know why? Because someone that loves someone does NOT treat them the way he's treated you,
Just be single and enjoy your space.
2006-06-29 22:38:14 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. Phil-lys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could try...but I would start talking about your problems before jumping to conclusions and breaking up. Communication is important if you want to stay in a relationship. My boyfriend broke up with me two different times cause people told him I was cheating..and I wasn't. So he just moved out and left me a note. (isn't that nice) but now we are together and He has learned to talk to me when things bother him instead of believing everyone else.
2006-06-29 22:39:57 · answer #3 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so. It's hard to maintain a relationship with someone in another town because if you decide to get back together yet again those feelings of jealousy might arise again when you hear of flirtings with girls from his town. No offesne but this guy doens't sound like he has a very stable personality.
2006-06-29 22:40:34 · answer #4 · answered by caitymercede 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey i have some advice for you if you think you love him than date him not this other guy cause you will never have another chance and who cares whether your parents like him or not they are not dating him and yes long distance relationships are hard but they are possible if you really do love that special person and if you guys cant trust each other than you should not be dating him whether you think he is the man of your dreams or not because you cant build a relationship on lies or what you think are lies but that is only my opion i also think that if you dont like the guy you are currently dating than you shouldnt be dating him
2006-06-29 22:43:47 · answer #5 · answered by dumb_blonde1209 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahhhhh....young love. It sounds like you're both not ready for a serious relationship, but unless his bi-polar is under control with medication, I'd stay clear of him. It's too dangerous, both physically and emotionally. As far as the cheating, what do you consider cheating?
2006-06-29 22:39:54 · answer #6 · answered by bcuz1998 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the relationship is that messed up it probably wasn't meant to be and he might not feel the same. if you get back together and he doesn't feel the same it could just make you depressed. find a new guy and learn to respect this guy and just always be there for him. a new guy would be the best choice
2006-06-29 22:38:25 · answer #7 · answered by musicfish93 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think everybody deserves a second chance... you should go back to him or loose him. can you imagine your life without him? can you live happily without him? you should ask it to yourself... enjoy every moment with your love .. that will make you happy.. its an easy decision and you dont have to pressure yourself thinking about it. love will move for you.. give it a try... if you want more love advices you may visit http://pannga.com ...goodluck girl..
2006-06-29 23:30:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you understand meaning of love? You are loving him till death ..do you know what death is? Grow up kid..understand life..!!
2006-06-29 23:05:21 · answer #9 · answered by DD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy is bad news. he's already verbally abusing you and as sure as rain it will escalate into physical abuse. he has BIG psychological problems. leave him for your own safety. there are other, better, men in the world and even in your own home town.
2006-06-29 22:37:04 · answer #10 · answered by realmomof4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋