So, here's my dilemma: girl (myself) meets guy. The two get along pretty well, but spend very little time together. Guy has to head home to east coast, girl lives on west. Guy calls girl. Guy starts calling girl at least every other day, and phone conversations last hours, sometimes even until 6 in the morning. Girl finds out guy has girlfriend, but isn't sure she'd want to enter into a relationship with him even if he were single. Still, she feels a bit guilty.
Would you consider this cheating?
2006-06-29 15:33:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And by cheating, I do mean cheating on his part. And if this was considered cheating, I'm wondering if I should bring it up with him and ask him to call less often.... thoughts?
2006-06-29 15:42:22 · update #1
I'm not sure I understand your whole thing. If you are asking if it is cheating for you to be talking to him so often when he has a girlfriend? I'd say it's cheating, but for him, not you. You aren't the one with the significant other. He should get rid of the other girl if he is interested in you. Keep this in mind..........If he cheats on her with you..........he will cheat on you with someone else. He obviously has no morals. You can do much better. Have some self esteem and move on.
2006-06-29 15:37:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is a really comfortable section for a lot of human beings. As for me i imagine there might want to be limitations. the actual incontrovertible reality that she became hiding it may propose that she became uncertain the way you'll react or there is something she did not favor you in searching out about. both one isn't a purely reason. even as married human beings have acquaintances of the different sex. There are genuinely limitations spoken and unstated. In my point of view restricted or no on my own time.All contact desires to be open and clear. in spite of everything does someone go away the room or conceal to talk with a chum it really is of a similar sex? maximum would answer no. Than why is it alright to hide and talk with a chum of the different sex. this is no longer and do not settle for it. so that you've the right to carry close who her acquaintances are male and lady. you've the right to carry close even as she is talking to a male chum and why. in case you experience the favor to carry close. i'm no longer conserving you won't be able to have self assurance your spouse do exactly not placed blinders on. My spouse has distinct male acquaintances and acquaintances. i do no longer ask who say has talked to just about continually. yet in conserving that there is a few them that she would not talk with until eventually she tells me earlier or after. it really is because we do not favor there to be any chance of a false impression. And with those there is not any on my own time in any respect era. Any way set your limitations and be keen to adhere to them your self. good success chris
2016-11-30 00:42:20 · answer #2 · answered by kennan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't cheating if you are not the one already involved in a relationship. Let him worry about that... you have nothing to feel guity about.
2006-06-29 15:37:59 · answer #3 · answered by cyndi71mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES
You have to live with yourself
a good policy is : if you have to ask if its cheating, it is
cry and move on
2006-06-29 15:35:37 · answer #4 · answered by mike c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well depends what you are talking about. sometimes yes and sometimes no you be the judge of is the conversation that you should be haveing have a blessed day
2006-06-29 15:41:33 · answer #5 · answered by debbie_jane_ryan2010 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it hes gonna spend more time wit her than you
2006-06-29 15:37:22 · answer #6 · answered by bjsgurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not married you're not cheating.
2006-06-29 15:43:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO
2006-06-29 15:37:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋