Ok well i've went half way across the country to visit my brother and other family members. We havnt seen each other in 2 years so we're excited to finally meet. We catch up with our past, go out to places, have fun. But then its time for me to go and i have to leave them behind and it makes everything depressing. Do you have any advice of getting through this kind of situation?
2006-06-29 15:23:58 · 17 answers · asked by gotsaquestion 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
there isn't really a remedy for sadness....unless they want to move back with you....sometimes, you need to be sad so you'll know how much you miss them....i would say to keep in contact with them....call them every once in a while....and come back and visit a bit more often....or tell them to visit you...i'm sorry you have to leave....i know how hard it is for you....my family is on the other side of the world...it was so hard to leave them the day i had to...i was crying in the airport and the airplane, and cried even more when i got home....but my family members and i keep in contact, we have msn and skype....and we chat when we meet online....i miss them very much, and it is really hard.....but i know i keep them in my thoughts and heart....and they too...we always talk about our memories and meeting up soon.....it is hard to have family far away....
2006-06-29 15:29:16 · answer #1 · answered by blue_bee 4 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Well, you have to go home right now, but you need to also remember the positive of the trip and know it's possible to make the trip again and with email, Instant messaging, etc there are a million ways to keep in contact. You're not technically leaving, just saying see you again real soon, keep in touch!
2006-06-29 15:26:51 · answer #2 · answered by the_doodle_bug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you could move to where they are, or if that is not possible, keep in touch by emailing each other letters and pictures. And call them on your cell phone. How about taking a class or joining a club, something to take your mind off of missing your family and it will help you to connect with other people in your community?
2006-06-29 15:29:37 · answer #3 · answered by Winzadin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep in phone conyact and make sure you take alot of pictures while you are out there. Also maybe you all can pool alittle money together to help pay for a yearly visit with them.
2006-06-29 15:30:12 · answer #4 · answered by cindy c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just know that even though you may not see them a lot ~ they will always be there for you ~ i know that the friends and family i have ~ i may not see them often but i know if i were in trouble they could come running to help me out. Just call ~ email ~ write them as often as you can to keep in touch. Its not easy but it gets better. Good Luck :)
2006-06-29 15:27:42 · answer #5 · answered by troublesome_roo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not say something like. "really enjoyed the visit and will hold all the precious memories close to my heart forever. Looking forward to the next time we can share a few days together. Until then keep my love safe in your heart as I will keep yours safe in mine."
2006-06-29 15:29:16 · answer #6 · answered by mr conservative 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't have one, get a video camera (CVS has disposable ones for 25 bucks, take pictures, and keep a journal about what you guys did, who said what, etc. Emails are cool, because there convienent but there's nothing like videos, pictures, and memories on paper. Make a scrapbook about your trip.
Most important, keep in touch.
2006-06-29 15:29:55 · answer #7 · answered by Mike B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..how do say this.....I also hav the same condition as u b4....is not like u will not visit them again right...so just move on and call them when ur not with them.....find some friends so u can hang out or hav fun so that u would not miss ur family that much....
2006-06-29 15:28:56 · answer #8 · answered by Clay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite them to come visit you next year. So you all can pick up where you left off.
2006-06-29 15:27:07 · answer #9 · answered by rb_cubed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i imagine you would possibly want to calm your self down beacause i dont no climate to belive in curses myself. yet you schould continually attempt to imagine on the negetive signal jus in case. So, i'd jus sparkling the mirror scratchings off. and replace a sparkling one and pretend nothin has happened yet nevertheless baring in recommendations to concentrate of issues.
2016-11-30 00:41:55 · answer #10 · answered by kennan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋