Me and my boyfriend/bandmate/best friendb are in a rocky place right now. He has been depressed lately. He normaly laughs like all the time but now he only smiles like once every two days. Ive tried to be there for him but it's hard to see someone you love so much so sad. What do I do!
2006-06-29 15:17:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should talk to him more about why he's so sad lately. It might be that it is hard for him to tell you but you should make it clear to him that you are there for him and beside him all the way. The only way to clarify the situation or make it better is to just talk about it no matter how hard it might turn out to be. If he simply refuses to talk about it, don't push he'll eventually have to give in so that he can heal from his recent depression.
2006-06-29 15:22:44 · answer #1 · answered by caitymercede 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it is hard to see someone you love so sad, i went through a similar situation..but the most you can do is just be there for him and let him know that if he needs to talk you are there no matter what..always let him know you support him..and love him..and eventually when he wants to he'll open up and let you know what is bother him, presurring him would only make it worse..try also to preoccupy his thoughts..do fun things..get out there watch movies...have wacky convos that would make him laugh..it would lighten his mood and possibly make it easier for him to talk b/c he isnt that tense
2006-06-29 22:21:53 · answer #2 · answered by micheypoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him, be there for him, don't force him to speak to you let him talk to you when he wants, try not to hang all over him let him have a little space to sort things out.
This happend to me and my best friend just a few weeks ago, I gave him space and he came crawling back to me a few days ago feeling a little better and ready to talk.
2006-06-29 22:21:36 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have him see a doctor for Anti-depressants. Depression can be treated with the right meds. and the right doctor.
2006-06-29 22:23:54 · answer #4 · answered by cindy c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well leave him alone for a day to think...then send him flowers and chocolates haha it works most of the time or get him a new cd that hes always wanted
2006-06-29 22:21:34 · answer #5 · answered by Cassandra D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you can do is let him know that you are there for him. somethings need to be worked out without the help of others ~ i know its tough but all you can do is be there. He will appreciate your friendship.
2006-06-29 22:22:38 · answer #6 · answered by troublesome_roo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him space but tell him when ur ready to talk about whats going on you'll be there
2006-06-29 22:23:30 · answer #7 · answered by emmaray2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me talk to him yet try to keep a distance i was like that but i cut myself
2006-06-29 22:21:29 · answer #8 · answered by logan o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
....depresion. Ask him how he feels, and maybe try to help him, in case you didn't already. (Which you probobly did.) If that doesn't work, try a pherepist.
2006-06-29 22:22:29 · answer #9 · answered by Platypus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋