im n a relation ship but i dont really like the person im dating as more than just a friend. i have went out with the guy i love 2 times already. the first time we broke up is cuz he heard that i had cheated on him, but he didnt believe that i didnt till he was already goin out with sombody else. then the second time we broke up... i broke up with him cuz i was grounded for about a month and couldnt see him, and while i was grounded he spent all of his time with one of my best friends and when i would talk to her at school she would always tell me how much fun they were having. so i got the idea that he was cheating on me with her but he wasnt, it was just jelousy. he is bipolar and will start yelling at any moment, my parents dont like him cuz of bad first impressions and want even give him a chance now, and now he lives in a different town . but i love him to death and i would do ne thing for him and ne thing to be with him and now he wants me back.. should i get back with him or not
2006-06-29 14:25:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Run the other way. Do not look back.
2006-06-29 14:31:21 · answer #1 · answered by nokiddingitsme 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well...this is the first time I've answered one of this questions which I ussually read and find amuzing. However, they love of my life was bipolar and I think I can give you a pretty good answer.
Run away as fast as you can from this guy, first of all, from what you write I'm guessing you are about what? 14? 16 years old? trust me, you might think you love him, but love is much more than whatever you feel right now, and no matter how many buckets of tears you could fill in a week, that is not love.
He will never change because he can't, his problem lives with him and will stay with him always, eventually making you a bit crazy as well, making you depressed when he comes into the manic stage and decides that you are no longer the object of his obssesion and cannot even stand looking at you. He will drive you insane even if he loves you.
Also, you are young and probably don't think that this is of much importance but that is GENETIC, so if you want normal, healthy, nonsuicidal or manic kids, stay away from him.
Good luck, and be brave.
2006-06-29 21:37:23 · answer #2 · answered by keka_lour 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That isn't really love, you feel secure with him because you are used to him but he is not in love with you and you say he gets mad well be careful he may hit you one day listen to your parents and try to make school your first priorty and let your boyfriend come after.
2006-06-29 21:31:15 · answer #3 · answered by kimmie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how are you going to 'get back with him' if he is in a different town from you? is he really far away or an hour away? anyway, sounds like you two are pretty jealous types, might not be a stable relationship if you do get back together.. but who knows.. sorry i am not much help..
2006-06-29 21:31:36 · answer #4 · answered by lulu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately not! If he really loved you, he would have believed you when you said you did not cheat on him. Second of all, he would have waited for you to be "ungrounded". He only thinks of himself. Move on and fast.
2006-06-29 21:29:30 · answer #5 · answered by cici 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. Getting together is just causing problems. If you go back with him, the chances of the problems getting worse is big!
2006-06-29 21:34:43 · answer #6 · answered by KeyBearer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I really think you sound to young for that kind of commitment. Wait a few years.
2006-06-29 21:30:57 · answer #7 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it is your chose on who you want to date and not who you want to date. So you be the person to tell yourself yes or no. But i would say yes if that was me in your problem.
2006-06-29 21:31:24 · answer #8 · answered by SchoolFreak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't love him really, and he doesn't love you.
That's the impression I get from what you said.
So I'd advise to find somebody else.
2006-06-29 21:28:06 · answer #9 · answered by revoltix 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break-up.
2006-06-29 21:28:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww poor u, i feeel sorry for u girl, ummm u shud brake up with him before something bad happens between u two..
2006-06-29 21:29:44 · answer #11 · answered by The Questionable Human Being gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋