ok thers this girl that was going out with for a year but then her best frind (who hates my guts) told her i was cheeting on her and she broke up with me we'v ben apart for about 2-3 years and she has often sed if her frind didnt break us up we would still be going out. iv tryed asking her out but shes allwas got a new bf how do i get her back. no smart *** ansers pleas
2006-06-29 14:00:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i wasnt cheeting her frind didnt like me so she broke us up
2006-06-29 14:08:09 · update #1
make nice with the friend. she holds the key
2006-06-29 14:09:50 · answer #1 · answered by Shanan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its true you were with another then you have blown the trust,so move on. You also need to get that women choose men and set the game up so that you think you chose her, this not being the case try and sleep with any woman without her permission, it's called rape, therefore thereof and thereafter women choose men and you have second choice. Sorry if that hurt your ego but it's fact and ask any woman if you don't believe me. If she doesnt trust you it will be easier to move a mountain than regain that trust,once a woman has decided it's no it's no and their might be a few compassionate yes's in between. However the root fear of distrust will always be expessed towards you with emotional violence, so if you want to be a masochistic punch bag ,go ahead! As they say you made you bed now go and lay in it. Maybe when the price gets to high to pay you'll get the lesson! and whats new? women backstabbing eachother out of jealousy!Sad and shallow as that may be. See it's not complete So go back and see her and be "authentic" because the bottom line with authenticty is " I love you" and it needs completing otherwise you'll end up living in a jungle of incompletions that you drag into you next relationship. nothing goes away until the absolute truth is told about it...PERIOD! and sometimes we operate from a condition of "i want you to love me but i don't want you to know me, because if you know me you might not love me " (fear of rejection) of which the subconsciouss will ineviatably create anyway because it's attached to being right! so learn to love without attachment and for as long as it will be, could it be possible that relationship wasn't supposed to be forever? (Walt Disney fairy stories) and that once we get all the growth we can we move on!
2006-06-29 14:06:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont stop trying if u really love her. try everyday. even if its something small. text her. call her. write her letters, send her flowers every week. buy her a teddy bear. make her cds. dont stop trying. i was going out with someone for 3 yrs and he broke up with me, wanted me back evensually and i honostly wanted him back but he didnt try enough. it will take her a lot - even if its not true about the cheating - to be able to trust u and to break up with her bf. hang in there, if she loves u shell come around.. but try and keep trying to show her that u care, just disregard the bf.
2006-06-29 14:07:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...were you cheating? If so move on and treat the next girl better. If you never did cheat then you should have let your g/f know this a long time ago. Have a true heart to heart about how you never cheated and how you missed her all this time and you still love and care about her.
2006-06-29 14:10:04 · answer #4 · answered by Diamonds_4Ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women,
I know like when they are begged,
( not saying she is one )
This is just what i have seen in other women,
It seems when a women knows ,
She can get a man back,
With a snap of her fingers,
And he will come running,
They go after the men they had to wait to go out with,
Because they know he ( you ) ,
Will always be there when she wants you back ~!
Try playing the Crazy GAME ~ !
Go on with your life,
Don't Beg or pay attention to her no more.
It Might make her wonder,
And see what she lost ,
and come running back to you.
If she don't, she was never in love,
as deep as you are with her.
Take care, go out and have fun ~ !
~*~*~*~*~Peace.
2006-06-29 14:41:14 · answer #5 · answered by Brat-tett & Brat Pack's 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anne i may be very flattered,yet i'm Married,i understand i'm enjoyed and mandatory lots,i do ought to safeguard Her,and can do something for my spouse,She is on my concepts 24-7,yet as for Her dreaming of me,i do exactly not understand,so take care my candy chum,and can existence take care of you properly.
2016-12-08 14:05:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, when she let's her friends decide who she should be with, it's time for u to just move on. love her or not, who needs that kind of mess and call it happiness. if she truly cared about u, u'd be with her and the friend would be *** out. think about it. peace.
2006-06-29 14:06:41 · answer #7 · answered by raishe alghool 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you cheat in the first place?
Explain it in a letter and then write why you desperately need her at your side again.
2006-06-29 14:05:27 · answer #8 · answered by blondieinlove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i kinda feel you on this since i have had relationships that i have wanted to last forever... they dont and i yearn for them again...
but ur situation is messed up... that girl is pawning u, bro... telling u she wants to be with you... then she gets a boyfriend?
u need to move on with your life and do something with your time... dont listen to the romantic nonsense about trying all the time... do something with your time.
peace!
2006-06-29 14:26:05 · answer #9 · answered by jimjwalker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write her a love letter
2006-06-29 14:03:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go on with my life and I really feel that if God wants you two together, then it will happen. You can not wait on her. Let her do the chasing!!!
2006-06-29 14:06:30 · answer #11 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋