first she is sitting there saying im a whore and all this stuff that im fat and stuff and now she wants to be my friend.. so what do i do? i cant just sit here and let it all be said b/c that would be wrong.. but do i be friends with her like he is so me and her arent fighting constantly or what?
2006-06-29 13:35:55 · 25 answers · asked by ButterCup 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be nice to her, but you don't have to be friends.
Her Ex is YOUR husband and not hers anymore.
Why is she still hanging around?
She is intruding on on your marriage.
Keep her at a distance and ask your husband
why he still needs her?
Be civil and polite but do not make her to comfortable
in your` life.
The things she said to you and about you to others
are still in her head. Even if she has apologized, she
should get her own life and let the two of get on with yours.
2006-06-29 13:46:43 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not become friends with her, it has disaster written all over it. It will be so awkward being fiends with her now that you're dating her ex. She has already made fun of you and called you names which already shows that she probably does not like you and wants to be friend because she has some ulterior motives. I would not trust her if I was you.
2006-06-29 20:39:20 · answer #2 · answered by moma 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard of "Keep your friends close but your enemies closer" It seems like she just wants to become your friend for the wrong reasons. Hun, I wouldn't trust her if I were you!<3
2006-06-29 20:38:29 · answer #3 · answered by Brittany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bury the hatchet but it sounds to me like she is trying to find a way to stay in his life. Let her AND him know that it's best if there is some healthy space. She needs to leave u 2 alone so u can have ur relationship...
2006-06-29 20:38:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does he want his ex to be involved in you guys' relationship anyway? She sounds pathetic and is trying anything she can to stay in your guy's life. I'd put my foot down and tell him NO!! If he wants to continue being friends with his ex, find a new guy that is willing to put YOU first.
2006-06-29 20:48:54 · answer #5 · answered by texasbelle_80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her know that you'll let her hang around, but as far as you're concerned, you two will not be best friends for life. tell her that her past comments hurt and won't be forgotten. (and are perhaps the reason she lost her man to you to begin with)
i'd question his motives for staying her friend if she did that too. is he over her? don't do the "her or me" stuff. coz it'll be her just to spite you. but let him know that her comments hurt and that you are her friend only because you love him.
2006-06-29 20:40:11 · answer #6 · answered by Ananke402 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now you better think of forgiving, be calm and lenient. Not necessarily make a friend or enemy. Just don't do anything, let them do whatever they like to.
2006-06-29 20:43:28 · answer #7 · answered by ma l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the old saying: "keep your friends close but your enemies closer"
Sounds like she's using you to get closer to your boy! Watch out for her...don't trust her!
2006-06-29 20:42:40 · answer #8 · answered by GooberPottybrains 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to be friends with his ex! You may need to be civil to her in his presence!
If she has called you names in the past whats to say that she is only getting close to you to:
A) Steal him back
B) Get you to confide in her and then blab to everyone
C) ALL OF THE ABOVE
Be wary of her - if you ask me she is being very sly!
2006-06-29 20:40:00 · answer #9 · answered by Beccygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be nice to her but probally not best friends untill I would be able to trust her. It sounds like she may just want to get close to your boy friend.
2006-06-29 20:39:16 · answer #10 · answered by steven 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋