okay ive been drawn to bad boyz in my time but is it the way they do there dirt or what has anyones had this problem...... even tho they are thugs or gangsta why do we fall for them
2006-06-29 13:28:36 · 20 answers · asked by sexxi star 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nothing wrong with bad boys. :)
2006-06-29 13:33:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you're irresponsible or not ready for a real and meaningful relationship and that is why you like bad boys. Just don't marry one you'll always have a tough time of it and the excitement of his bad boy ways will quickly lose their appeal especially if he doesn't respect you. If it does become true love you both should really consider losing the "bad"image. If you really feel drawn to being used and abused then counseling would be great, especially group counseling where you can identify with others. Danger is always exciting but you will eventually get bored when you''ve seen enough. Have fun and be careful!
2006-06-29 20:42:32 · answer #2 · answered by Natalie M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the thug mentality, baby! I feel you on this one. I don't want a soft guy who is not gonna say somethin when someone tries to disrespect me or him. I want a man that I know can protect me at all cost. I am a die hard romantic also, but I don't want a love sick puppy either. I don't want and adult dog, who's gonna be disrespectin me either. So you have to do your best to stay in control of the situation. Don't give in too much. Let him know he will always have to work for what he wants from you. It keeps him from taking you for granted. Stay confident, even when you don't feel confident. A guy likes a chase and once that chase is over it gets kind of boring fast. I'm not talking about playing games. Just don't seem to pressed and please keep your heart on the inside. Chill with all of the drama.
2006-06-29 20:56:03 · answer #3 · answered by luvu2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea! I had the same problem, until I met my current boyfriend, the nicest, sweetest man in the world. The first time we dated I broke it off cuz he was "too nice". Well almost three years later was when he decided to try again, and I am totally into him. It was just like it was a phase I had been in but have grown out of now. Hopefully you will have a similar experience because bad boys will only drag you down with them. Good luck, girl!
2006-06-29 20:35:16 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I always fall for them because I think I can change them. I also think seeing a thug or gangsta's softer side makes you feel more special than just a regular guy. It can also have something to do with the fact that women may feel safer because they are able to protect us.
2006-06-29 20:32:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Excitement.
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2006-06-29 20:32:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are truly bad boyz if they would ever put you in harms way. If that's the case you may want to steer clear of them altogether. We are drawn to them because their so called bad boy status gives us a false sense of security. Our insecurity is what draws us to their false sense of.....
2006-06-29 20:40:10 · answer #7 · answered by Shikibeeks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boredom. from experience tho, they start to bore the crap out of you too. look for a nice guy that can be a bad boy where it counts and get the best of both worlds!
2006-06-29 20:31:50 · answer #8 · answered by Ananke402 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all girls fall for some bad boys i mean why would you want a boring guy... but your prolly better off with a nicer guy.... but if thats what u want you really have no control
2006-06-29 20:31:43 · answer #9 · answered by devilbrunette23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am like that too. I think it is because we like the thrill and excitement that being with those types of guys will bring.
2006-06-29 20:31:34 · answer #10 · answered by starr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am attracted to bad boys because I am a bad girl!!!
2006-06-29 20:36:04 · answer #11 · answered by ProudSexySouthernGirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋