What should I wear, Should I do my hair, Should I wear perfum, what do i do? should we hug or do we shake hands? should i hold his hand if he tries to hold my hand?
2006-06-29 13:15:50 · 34 answers · asked by citygirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
does this mean i have to pay too?
2006-06-29 13:20:16 · update #1
Well it depends on where your going as far as how you should dress and how well you click as to the hand holding etc.
If your going to dinner and a movie I would just dress casually. A theater a little dressier and so on. Perfume is nice no matter where your going as long as it's not to heavy. Guys usually like a girl that smells nice.
As far as that big decision at the end of the night should I let him kiss me or not...hmmm... well... nah!!!! Turn that cheek... leave him with wanting another date with you... but also let him know you are interested with that million dollar smile and a tad of shyness. Assuming you like him that is. If not make sure you put your hand out first.
If he expects you to pay your share... dump him tonight sweetie!
Good luck and have fun tonight.
2006-06-29 13:32:03 · answer #1 · answered by Abby2 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
SLOW down.....Wear something cute, yet conservative, nothing too dressy....wear you're hair the way you think it looks best up or down....definitely wear perfume, nothing too strong...depending on how long you've been talking to him or if someone set you up...if you've been talking to him, hug....if you've been set up, shake hands....if he tries to hold your hand and you feel comfortable hold his.
If he looks funny and acts like a kid RUN......I had a blind date a couple of months ago and I should have ran because he started acting like my 6 year old nephew playing with toys...what a weirdo.
As for the paying, you shouldn't have to if he's a gentleman, but just in case bring some emergency money.
2006-06-29 13:20:47 · answer #2 · answered by BbyGrl80 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK! Calm down! it's not that big a deal. Wear whatever you feel comfortable in, but nothing too revealing. Hair- same thing. WEar it how you normally do. IF you do wear perfume, only put on a little, you dont' want him holding his nose the whole time, now, do you? (lol). When you greet him, see what he does first. If he holds otu his hand, shake it, if not, then hug. if he tries to hold your hand, that' sok, but dont' go beyond that. The bottom line is, jsut be yourself.
2006-06-29 13:19:31 · answer #3 · answered by Perfect Alien 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear something modest that makes you feel sexy. Perfume is always a must..research show men are immeadiately attracted to women that have traces of vanilla on them. Don't hug or do a hand shake when you first meet, it will be awkward. Let him get the door for you...always. As far as any other gesture, it will depend on if you like him or not..just go with the flow.
2006-06-29 13:19:44 · answer #4 · answered by texasbelle_80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear something casual but dressy, but not TOO dressy. A nice sundress would be appropriate depending on the place. Wear perfume...I know lots of men who love to remember the smell and it encourages them to see you again...Act natural don't act giddy or uptight or like you have something up your butt. Be yourself and breathe a bit. If he holds yours by all means hold his....if you have the connection there..then hold his hand when he motions to....Hugs are always good on a first date..kissing on the cheek is ok..but lips is a bit much depening on the chemistry...good luck
2006-06-29 13:21:36 · answer #5 · answered by disfunkshunaldork 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u going with other couples u probably should just in case u noe and i think the best is shake his hand first while giving him a hug but not to tight i think the best is holding his arm holding hands should be latter if u like him, dont whear something skanky dress nice and proper may be a dress or nice jeans with some heels and a nice cute turquoise shirt. good luck be safe
2006-06-29 13:22:05 · answer #6 · answered by lazybutt916 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breath! If you don't calm down nothing will go right and you'll be all sweaty, yuck! Just be yourself, dress like you would for any date, style your hair like you normally do(now isn't the time to experiment-do that on a night you don't have a date), if you wear perfume-wear perfume! Remember breath! Focus on him tonight and try to ease his nervousness and you'll forget all about how nervous you are. Have fun!
2006-06-29 13:23:51 · answer #7 · answered by Natalie M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as what to wear n stuff..just do what you would normally do on a date...You want to look good, you never know, this guy could be hot. Shake hand when meeting...maybe hug when saying good night if you like him. I would hold hands, if you like the guy. good luck and have fun.
2006-06-29 13:21:16 · answer #8 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, make yourself look hot, not hoochy, but hot, if he's cute and your into him and he goes for the hand, hold it. Do your hair makeup, perfume the works, shake hands, hugging is for friends, he's getting to know you, like an interview, so shake hands. Good luck!!
2006-06-29 13:19:44 · answer #9 · answered by ButterPecan Rican 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would dress up but don't over do it. It should be some what casual and dressy at the same time and No i wouldn't wear perfume. and I would give him a hug. And for your hair I would wear it down but nicely at the same time, straighten it if its curly . or you can have it in soft curls if you can do that with your hair type. but just have fun and good luck.
2006-06-29 13:20:30 · answer #10 · answered by hershey_kiss_3000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋