2006-06-29 13:06:22 · 13 answers · asked by jiomylove 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Er, let's see. Before you tell a guy you love him, you should...
1) Love him;
2) Know him well;
3) Respect him;
4) Trust him to accept your love at face value;
5) Expect that he loves you in return.
That could take weeks, months or years. Or you may never love the guy. If you're thinking "I wonder if I should tell him I love him" you shouldn't -- when it's time, you'll know (and the five points above will be true.)
2006-06-29 13:32:09 · answer #1 · answered by daveowenville 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
As long as it takes for you to get to know him well enough to know that you really love him. This generally takes months or years. You can become infatuated with or aroused by a guy in a matter of days or weeks, but it takes a lot longer to really know that you love him.
2006-06-29 13:18:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he feel the same way, otherwise you could set yourself up for feeling like a prat, oh and possibly send him running for the hills! Depends how the whole thing feels to you.
2006-06-29 13:12:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I love you" is a very sacred phrase and you shouldn't say it unless you're sure, who knows maybe you really don't love him and you're just getting carried away. You know what they say- dont say I love you unless you mean it, but if you do mean it you have to say it a lot coz people forget!
2006-06-29 14:13:15 · answer #4 · answered by ice_07angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well when you love him you know and you should tell him. unless its the first date. that would be to soon.
2006-06-29 13:11:01 · answer #5 · answered by drunkredneck45 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One year.
2006-06-29 13:39:35 · answer #6 · answered by starr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you "Love" him - thats when..
But "Love" should take a while - remember youve got to love him when you wakeup next to him and see what a mess he is... ;)
2006-06-29 13:21:18 · answer #7 · answered by want_to_explore_life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to scare him away tell him you love him as soon as you know you do.
the best thing to do is wait for him to say it to you first.
2006-06-29 19:10:22 · answer #8 · answered by thebestnamesarealreadytaken0909 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think about it just say it! What finer words can be said?Luck boy friend
2006-06-29 17:32:48 · answer #9 · answered by thecharleslloyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should tell him whenever your ready, and if u think he feels the same way or if you ready to get rejected
2006-06-29 13:11:27 · answer #10 · answered by geigerjanelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋