gave me his number today before he left my work he is really cute and we got along great. he wanted me to call him to hang out sometime. i know he must mean it b/c it takes alot of guts to come back up to a girl to hand over your number. i really really want to call him and set something up. but i dont know how long i should wait before i call him. i dont want to seem desperate. oh and what do i say when i do call him?
2006-06-29 13:00:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Say " hi, so and so..how are you ? are you busy? "no" well..what did you do today..what are you doing this weekend? do you want to do something ? maybe a movie or bowling? YES he'll say....and then you go on the date and have fun!!!!!
2006-06-29 13:04:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to break the news to you, but if this dude had some real guts, he would have asked for your HOME phone number instead of doing the wimpy "I'll give her my card and hope she calls" move. Anyway, sounds like you like this guy, so wait five days to call him. Do not call on a Friday or Saturday(You have a life). When you call, try to talk to him for two or three minutes to see if you still think he's hot without seeing his face. If he has any sense or guts, he should be asking you out at this point. Remember, you may like him but he's still a stranger so if you decide to meet him, make it somewhere crowded and nicely lit. Meet up at Starbucks on a Sunday morning or weekday evening beteween 6 and 8. See if this guy can make you laugh and keep his hands to himself for a half hour. Then take it from there...
2006-06-29 13:13:41 · answer #2 · answered by Don Ricardo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, nothing is worse than people waiting because they seem desperate. Chances are, he's sitting there waiting for your call, and will get depressed if you don't call. He's not going to think you're desperate for calling him, that's the reason that he gave you his number, isn't it? Also, don't worry about what to say... Just ask if he had a reason for giving you his number. And if you're interested in the guy, don't be afraid to ask him out sometime, guys don't mind that and shouldn't have to ask all the time...
2006-06-29 13:04:46 · answer #3 · answered by tommywheelz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two days is the rule...call him this weekend...like Saturday around noon...for a date that night. It's the rules...ooh and when calling..just be casual and ask what he would like to do...perhaps suggest going to a quiet restaurant or picnic in a park...and a movie afterwards??
2006-06-29 13:02:41 · answer #4 · answered by disfunkshunaldork 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, im confused, i looked at your previous questions, one says your married and hubby wants you to quit, one says you have been seeing this one guy to sleep and get knocked up twice, now you saying you got a number and want to hang out with a new dude. are you on here just trying to play games or are you just a dirty ho who likes to sleep around on your husband. either way, i think you need help because the way your questions are coming out is not good.
2006-06-29 13:06:40 · answer #5 · answered by bdaddy20012000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should call 2 or 3 days after and you should tell him that he said to call and you wanted to hang out. so you were wondering when he would like to hang out.
2006-06-29 13:06:04 · answer #6 · answered by sweety 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The whole dating "game" is stupid. If you like him, just call him when it feels right! You don't have to wait a certain amount of time!
2006-06-29 13:02:59 · answer #7 · answered by Lindsay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 days, standard, during those three days, rent/borrow/buy Swingers with Jon Favreau and Vince Vaughn...you're golden
2006-06-29 13:04:12 · answer #8 · answered by romantemple16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just call him life is too short for games.
2006-06-29 13:03:46 · answer #9 · answered by coacharbs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why should u call, isnt it the man's job to run around for you...i mean if he likes you that much he should be doing all the work
2006-06-29 13:03:55 · answer #10 · answered by kiss2envy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋