i'm gonna go to skool this year, but i've been homeskooled all my life! is there ne thing i need to know?

Question

can some 1plz help me?

i have one problem! i'm really shy!!!!!!!!!

oh yeah, are kids going to call me a freak cause i'm 11 and i look 18?

Thanks everyone for the advice! But I do know how to spell school okay.

Answer 1

Yes Dear! You need to learn how to spell!

Answer 2

It's ok to be shy. Lots of schooled kids are too. Just be sensitive to people around you. Listen to what they have to say and respond within the subject. I know it's probably not a problem for you, but I'm just being thorough... I don't know if you were homeschooled *with* a social group or without one. If you were homeschooled with lots of socialization school is no big deal. If you stayed in your books forever, it's a little more difficult. Just pay attention to what other people are saying and talk about things they might be interested in. Don't go on about baby names and language structures (I knew a girl who did this once, she was a bad example of homeschoolers) or change every conversation to be about your pet topics.

You'll find that people will like you if you like them and are genuinely interested, so just do that and you'll have no problem making friends.

Answer 3

I am not insulting you but you need to work on your spelling. Being in public school is difficult if you've never been in it before. Be yourself and follow your own path. Don't concern yourself about being popular or with the "in" crowds. So what if you look like you are 18 years old; if you are a girl, the boys will love you (be careful!) and if you are a boy, the girls will love you and no one will mess with you. Concentrate on your schoolwork and homework. Those that make fun of you may one day beg you on their hands and knees for a job hoping that you don't remember that you went to school with them and the way that they treated you. Success is the great revenge...so if they make fun of you...use that energy but redirect it to you are studies to become a doctor, lawyer, scientist, etc. But, remember, all that you do to become better is really for yourself. Make yourself proud. Best wishes and take care.

Answer 4

Getting along with those you are going to go to school with is a must. You probably feel like being shy is being nice, unfortunately, your new schoolmates will see it as being stuck-up and being difficult. Even though it may not come naturally to you, be as outgoing as possible, and find a group of friends to hang out with, that you can identify with. I'm not sure how your homeschooling went. but be prepared to do more homework than before, and for it to be more competitive than it has been.Starting a new school is like starting your way in the world. You can do it, just have to expect to be tested, and come through it a stronger person than before.

Answer 5

Be yourself and don't try to blend in. You are different and different in a GOOD way. Know what you stand for and then actually stand for it, holding yourself and your new friends to the same higher than average standards you have been taught. Do what IS good rather than all the temptations that may feel good. Do not allow this new kind of socialization to trick you into thinking you've been taught wrong; if you are tempted to change your morals, wait patiently til you're 25 or so to be sure.

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Answer 6

Remember all that your mother and father have taught you about strong morals and character and no matter how tough peer pressure gets don't give into temptation to be someone that you are not and don't give into something that you know isn't right. Your parents must believe in you and probably have seen you make some really good choices in life. That is why they are letting you go to school. Choose to be someone that is a leader to do right and you will be fine.

Answer 7

Yeah. People suck. Don't let it get to you. Find a few good friends and go your own way. Don't get caught-up in the typical crap that all kids do...bullying, fighting over girlfriends and boyfriends and groups hating other groups is not worth your time. Don't take anything at face value. Lay low for a few months untill you get to know everybody. You will be suprised at all the stupid stuff that goes on with kids in school...

Answer 8

I'm a math teacher who has homeschooled (6+ years) her own children. Here's a few things:
1. Work is due when your teacher says it is due....you will not have the luxury of turning it in whenever you want.
2. Show your math work.....no matter what level of math your in.
3. Be prepared for others to try to get you to cheat, letting someone copy your homework is cheating. Just don't start it........the peer pressure will be tremendous.
4. Not everyone will like you; you can survive this.
5. Be yourself.......

Answer 9

I have never been home schooled but have known plenty of people who have. Dont be shy, some people take shyness as a sign of someone who is stuck up...Dont try to fit in by being someone other than yourself. Join a group that you have stuff in common with. If you like cheerleading than try out for the squad, etc. Good Luck to you and know that we are all individuals that always have something to offer. Always Smile cause you never know who is falling in love with it.....

Answer 10

I've been homeschooled for the majority of my life too. I'd just say...keep to the books and don't fall for social status cons. I was talking to a scientist the other day and he said that he had tutored a student in math and he found that what most kids problems were that they were more focused on their image than what they were getting on their grades and what they were gonna do for a better future. More education means a better future, a better job, and more respect.

Answer 11

First of all, I would advise against spelling "school" with a k. Then one thing I strongly suggest is that you evaluate your priorities and values and make sure you make friends who share those with you so it will be easier to assimilate into your new school. Last and certainly most importantly, it is paramount that you remember who you are and stay true to yourself. You can't change what people think about you; it is their decision. Consider attending a new school an opportunity to meet new people and experience new situations.