How do I get guys to pay attention to my friend?

Question

I am in a very serious relationship and very commited and happy with my man but my best friend is single. She is sad and lonely and needs to have a man in her life. Every time we go out I try to help her find someone but for some reason every guy we talk to wants to hook up with me instead. Even when I tell them I have a man and am happy with him. She is a really cute girl and we have alike personalities. There is 1 problem and that is that she has 4 kids. Most men probably think she is looking for a "daddy" for her kids, but she ISNT! She doesnt need that. Her kids are fine and already have a daddy. Anyway, she is coming here this weekend and were supposed to go out and "man hunt". Im worried that the same thing is going to happen even though we are going to new places. I hate it because it makes her feel so sad and worthless when it happens. What do I do to make her stand out more than me? Ive tried not doing my makeup and wearing my junky clothes already. Help!

Answer 1

there is nothing you can do...in her own time, she will find the right guy that will care for her for what she is and the responsibilites she has in her life. she just has to remain positive and keep on living her life, it will happen for her!

Answer 2

It sounds like one of the problems is that you are trying to find men out at bars. You really aren't fishing from a quality pool when you do that. She should try internet dating.

Answer 3

you can put her picture up on a dating site and see if any one in the area would want to date her i think that would work cause i have seen people do it all the time well some of my friends did

Answer 4

she needs a boost of comfidence and flirt by talkin and looking good but not sluty

Answer 5

Where is she from i'll go out with her.

Answer 6

tell her to lose a few pounds.