If you didn't would you like to have waited. Or do you believe that waiting to have sex until married is not important?
2006-06-29 12:37:28 · 17 answers · asked by All_real 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Are you kidding me?
2006-06-29 12:40:43 · answer #1 · answered by Janet K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and we have been married nearly 38 years. Still think it's best choice. Probably promoted earlier marriage, but we are both Christians and virginity was much more revered years ago. None of our friends waited and it wasn't as if it was easy to wait or that we weren't going crazy with temptation. When one of us was weak and ready to cave - other would be strong. No regrets. Waiting made our bond much stronger. Our faith has kept us together. Love goes up, down and all around, but faith endures all. Lastly, there were 3 of us saying vows . . . so now when one or both of us feels like giving up - God is always and forever strong.
2006-06-29 12:54:19 · answer #2 · answered by Glinda F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gotta agree with the first answerer here. There's SO many levels to compatability, I think it's incredibly naiive to enter into marriage without testing the waters, so to speak. Unless you're fortunate enough to have found a man who's also a virgin... but I think that could prove risky too.
Different preferences in frequency, style, environment, timing, etc. Marriage will make the spark fade eventually anyway.. so you've gotta make sure you've got it right~ in every area~ before you marry.
2006-06-29 12:44:18 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont necessarily think you need to wait until marriage, but I do think that it should be with someone you want to be with. I mistakenly did not, and wish I had... I have been with 2 people... the first a mistake, the second I married and am still with with 2 beautiful kids...
2006-06-29 12:41:18 · answer #4 · answered by KC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a strong proponent of sex before marriage. If you had to pick one food to eat for the rest of your life, wouldn't you want to try at least some foods, and THEN decide what was your favorite? Now if you have never tried anything else, then ignorance is bliss I suppose. EXCEPT that when all those other foods come your way - and other people are eating them, trying them out, and you never have - the temptation to try them is going to be much greater than if you'd already tried them and decided that you weren't that fond of them.
2006-06-29 12:45:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Simply and would not judge a woman that did not wait anymore than I would a man. It would be really dangerous to find out on your wedding night that there was something just not right.
2006-06-29 12:47:17 · answer #6 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really believe this is a personal preference and based on your beliefs. What other women have done or believe won't help you make a decision if your asking the questions for yourself. All I can say is be true to yourself, respect your decision and be honest to you and your partner. If he truly respects you, he'll understand.
2006-06-29 13:43:15 · answer #7 · answered by AR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but I wish I did.
I don't buy into that whole "you have to make sure you're compatible" stuff. If you really love each other you will find a way to be compatible and giving rather than sexually selfish...it's not all about feeling good, but giving yourself to another person.
2006-06-29 12:49:38 · answer #8 · answered by Call me AL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you consider this to be any of your business?. Call a 900 number if you want to talk about sex, and get over it. If you don't want to, or regret that you did, have sex before marriage that is your issue.
2006-06-29 12:42:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
favor to have an open line of verbal replace to understand her reasoning and note if it meets your innovations/emotions. There are a number of motives that a lady would have for determining on to abstain from sexual sex: - religious: in a good number of faiths, it’s instantly ahead for devotees to proceed to be abstinent till they have married. - wanting to simplify your existence: sexual sex can bring about being pregnant, STDs and problem of non-public relationships. many people opt for to abstain from sex at the same time as they’re in a hectic era or sense that sexual sex would needlessly complicate their existence. - Morals: someone would opt for to proceed to be abstinent for own themes of morality. for instance, one would no longer trust in using birth control, consisting of birth control pills, or condoms, yet would also no longer favor to get pregnant properly this second. for this reason abstinence is the in uncomplicated phrases thanks to keep away from being pregnant. - affected by an STD: If someone has shrunk a sexually transmitted ailment, they ought to enter right into a era of abstinence till it really is been cleared up or is less than administration. - cost: Abstinence is the no longer expensive style of birth control.
2016-11-15 10:51:11 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, no! I had sex when we got engaged. I wished I had waited!
The wedding night would have been that much more FUN!!!!! It was still great!
2006-06-29 12:42:42 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋