Ok I am dating this white guy (first time dating outside of my race)and we have been on a few dates. But everytime he goes to kiss me on the lips I try to but I always make up an excuse or just kiss his cheek. I mean their lips are just so small and I'm scared to actually put my lips on him. I know I'm attracted to him, cause he is fine for a white guy but I just cant do it. Do you think it's a Phobia? Help.
2006-06-29 12:33:53 · 14 answers · asked by tru_blkgoddess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Time to get over it and kiss him. His lips aren't small, just the pink portion of the lip is smaller, he has all the same feeling that you do. Next time, surprise him and give him a long, hard kiss. You'll be surprised.
2006-06-29 12:35:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No this is not a phobia,this case usually happens when you have done something for the first time,I think you should let him know how you feel and also let him know you love him but if you don't want to do this you should know that kissing the opposite or different race will not affect you, everyone is the same,you can also relax your self and and do what you know is right deep down!!!
2006-06-29 19:45:15 · answer #2 · answered by Lissa305 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i fell that the reason that u cant kiss him is because ure making such a big issue on his race . Yes he is white but i bet hes a great kisser u need to get over the race problem
2006-06-29 19:39:22 · answer #3 · answered by Brianna M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I think you are thinking too much about the race & might be self conscious about your lips being bigger, but you should not let that get to you & when that moment comes just enjoy it.
2006-06-29 19:38:31 · answer #4 · answered by roxy10 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cant stop thinking of how you said "I mean their lips are just so small " you have a deeper problem then just kissing him....on that note kissing someone is a very personal thing.....go see a shrink
2006-06-29 19:37:29 · answer #5 · answered by truthfinder1960 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's lip-phobia. Just try with little pecks first.
2006-06-29 19:36:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I do. But what you need to decide is if he's "fine" enough to get beyond that. Maybe down deep your not comfortable with the situation.
2006-06-29 19:36:32 · answer #7 · answered by Angel B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all boys lips are small. its just how it is. and if you care about race then dont date him.
2006-06-29 19:35:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ur attracted to him an you can't kiss him then there's obviously something wrong. {I'm not trying to be mean} just giving u facts
2006-06-29 19:37:39 · answer #9 · answered by SuzzyLou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ha! you thinks lips r small just see under the clothes!!
2006-06-29 19:36:06 · answer #10 · answered by john 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋