my friends call me prude, but i actually want to experience pleasure and everything, the opportunity just hasnt presented itself. i'm really confused and i dont know what to do and i'm tired of waiting. HELP!
2006-06-29 12:22:47 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
do you know who you remind me of? ... me! when i was fourteen... i had just the same fears as you, and acted under peer pressure. want to be cool and appreciated, so i did things i regret now.
wait, that's the only thing i can advice you to do. your first kiss should be something for you to remember all your whole entire life. and so should be your first sexual act. guys just want to experience, so don't rush, you might get hurt. but i know you are not really gonna listen to all those blabla. the only you wanna hear is "do whatever you feel like" if you choose to do so, ensure that if you get in trouble, you would have someone to lean on. you're 14, and you might get pregnant. isit what you really want?
so yeah, go for your first kiss, but for the sexual things, please please, wait... there's no need to rsh...
2006-06-29 12:36:44 · answer #1 · answered by orel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are only 14 and I promise you can wait and nothing bad will happen. When you are 20 it won't matter what your friends thought of you at 14. But to make a mistake and start too early could have serious consequences that hang around long after those friends are gone. My sister had sex because of peer pressure and she got pregnant. She wishes she had been a prude that way she wouldn't be a teen mother.
2006-06-29 12:39:52 · answer #2 · answered by stophatinboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't lilsten to what your friends say. For one thing, they're probably not telling the truth, and even if you are a prude compared to them, that could actually mean that they are uh...not nice girls...hehe
Please don't be tired of waiting. You shouldn't have been thinking of this too long, you have way too much time ahead of you. To have a first kiss would be cool, and I hope you do find a cool guy for that. And I hope it is good, because you will remember it forever.
2006-06-29 12:25:51 · answer #3 · answered by merlin_steele 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a saying: "sweet sixteen and never been kissed". Yeah, that's really not that unusual, so at 14 you're about on schedule. Sweetie, don't rush things! That first kiss should be something very, very special - and 14, 15 and 16-year-old boys just can't provide that. Hey, they aren't going anywhere, they're just going to grow up. Wait for 'em - it really IS worth it!
2006-06-29 12:28:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This really doesnt need to be rushed but if youre waiting for a 14 year old boy to come up to you and ask you on a date ..well lets just say dont hold your breath, talk to the boys at your school.. if you like one in particular ask him to go out with you! it is 2006 after all not 1950
2006-06-29 12:26:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient with yourself and everything will happen in its time. Are you tired of hearing adults say that yet?
Just enjoy being yourself--you don't need the physical affections of another person to make you better or stronger or whole. Take pride in the young woman that you are, and that you are trying to become.
It will be better if you wait for the right time, and not try to rush things. Your true friends will accept you for just who you are and not how some boy paws at you.
2006-06-29 12:30:02 · answer #6 · answered by jmay0418 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only fourteen! You have time!! Its good that you want to do it at the right time and not just because of others. Peer pressure is NOT the way to go! Being a prude is not a bad thing!!!!
2006-06-29 12:25:39 · answer #7 · answered by krazykair 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks Sis first of all if your friends pressure you to do something you don't feel ready to do, then that are not really good friends, your first any thing has to be special, and with someone you want to do it experience it with, because it the first kiss the any thing in your life that will stick with you always in your mind. I hope this helps you out in some way . take care and just be yourself
2006-06-29 12:32:01 · answer #8 · answered by James 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be in a hurry to give up your virginity!. I started sex way too young and I think it caused more problems for me because I was not ready. You have enough to worry about with school work and exams, and you yourself say you are confused, there is nothing wrong in waiting. I just wished I had!. I know this will sound lame but if your school has a nurse or counsellor you might consider talking to them because their are many things to consider, safe sex, diseases, pregnancy.
2006-06-29 12:39:54 · answer #9 · answered by unwise_blonde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is proly the jealous type. i understand i'm getting jealous now and again and stare at my boyfriend, see if he tests them out or something. i have calmed down now after time, yet which will be it. only refer to her about it. in case you've already got, then only save deliver it up till she does furnish you with an answer why.
2016-11-15 10:50:59 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋